not to mention whacking out the quacks i howled
love
bobby

Donna your idea is good. Waves, I am wacking our the wacks. I also got to the route of my sons depression. I ask all for thoughts, and good vibes to come this way. Sometimes things come to light, that were in the dark, this will either tear our family further apart, or it will restore very broken and hurtful family situtaion. You all know the things that have been on my plate, and I am ever in gratitude that I know you all. ginnie

Ginnie

Its just the way my mom helped my sister.

And its the way I have to do Derrick's. Through being a Rep Payee.

But the phamplet can be a pain. So I have adapted it to a middle between
things.

I know I don't take advantage of him, and that is all that matters to
me.

Donna

Dear Ginnie,

I send lots of good vibes and thoughts.
Keep taking care.
Keep sending updates. I hope that your week goes well for you.

M

I am also caught up in a very messy trust, which complicates things. Doing investigation right now, thank you so much. ginnie

Dear Ginnie,

I will keep hope for you in my heart that what has come to light will restore your family.

'Sending lots of good vibes your way, for healing and peace, extending those to your family also.

Hang in there Ginnie, and keep hanging onto us. We are here for you.

((((hugs))))

~ waves ~

Thank you waves, I know where to go when I am in trouble, physical, emotional, right here with you. My son is doing all he can to do the right things. Another family member twisted something terrible to put blame on him and on me. We both did right thing, the right path. Sometimes there can be a toxic person in a family as all of you know. It is important to find truth, in order to restore peace. I did all the right things and so did my son, yet my daughter and my grandson were taken out of my life. She was special education and had no skills to understand the reasons behind a persons actions. Blame is on the wrong persons. Sometimes as all of us have felt, life can be hard. I will stick to the right principals, the right morals and continue on regardless. I have this surgery to contend with, it just was hard to go through this kind of upset at this particular time, when so much is pressing on me. Love you all. ginnie

Oh am sorry for the upset in your family I hope it works out that you may have some peace in this for you and your son.
(((((HUGS))))
bizi

I did find out alot about the part of my family who abandoned me. There is a toxic person, and my innocent special education daughter who does not have the mental skills to understand the reasons behind actions, that had to take place regarding a trust from my mother. She has been twisted, and cannot make the mental connections, so her brother and me were blamed for something I had no control over. I did all the right things and so did her brother. We acted morally, and correctly. Her husband, because he thought I short changed her somehow, took this innocent adult and my grandchild away from me for these past 9 years. I am abandoned by them, though I did all the right things. Her anger is misplaced, and firmly belongs to her husband, who used her to get family money. This is the core of the situation. This on top of my medical issues. It is the reason why I am so emotional, and at times a basket case, as I have many issues going on at one time to deal with. I am grateful to be able to tell the situation to those here who understand how money can destroy a family. Would I be on medicare/medicaid or food stamps, if I kept funds? No I lost all because I got sick. They want more, more money, stuff, possessions, things that have no value. I sold things to get my medications when they were 1,000 a month and no insurance. They want stuff? Stuff? When my life is on the line? Daughter was twisted to think these things are important. she got what was due her. It did not satisfy her and her husband. What a truth to tell, what a tale of family sorrow. I know on this site Bizi, that there are people with a BIG and good soul. That is why I stay here. Forever grateful for a place of comfort and understanding. Thank you Bizi, ginnie

still working on wacking out the quacks. Have my PCP in my corner now to help with that.He understood and is now intervening on my behalf. I just loved that sentance. ginnie