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Old 04-18-2007, 11:40 AM #11
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Sorry to hear this, but don't be too hard on yourself, it takes two to tango.

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Chilling does sound like a good plan, sorry about the eye glasses thingy...frustrating.
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Thank you all,

I've also tried to get a lot of business taken care of today. I am invited to a party tonight but don't feel like going.

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I am so sorry to hear how this is hurting you. I think it would ahve been decent of him to mutully at least sent you a note, or called to discuss his intent and give you the option to file.

It hurts when "They" file as if we did somethig worng, and it is the permanance of ending that hurts too.

but, it will mean in the long run that you are no longer hismproperty, he has no ownership or rights to you, you are FREE, free from the oppression, negitivity, and able to have more room in your heart for loving the person you are with out his baggage.

You are a special person and deserve to be treated like a princess,
No matter what Divorce is tough on anyone even under amicable circumstances, i hope you know that you did not fail, the man failed in being half way human and compassionate..he was controlling and degrading, you deserve so uch more then that weight around your neck.
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Thank you Di,

I do want this divorce and it is better he files cause he'll have to pay for the divorce.

I feel better emotionally tonight but now nauseated I think from the butter on the popcorn. I hope you are doing fine Di.

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Hi BF - How are you doing today?


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Hi Nanc,

I am doing much better today. Last night an out of state friend took me out to dinner which perked me up. Tomorrow I'll see my brother's small kids which I am really looking forward to since I don't have any kids. Thanks for asking.

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I LOVE your picture. OMG that is so fun to see your face!!

Tell us about your visit. I would love to hear about your nephews.
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The biggest hugs are on the way.
I love to see you when you post...Great picture, when I think of you now I can put a wonderful smiling face with it! Dinner sounded like fun and tomorrow a day with the kiddos wow.
LEt us know how the day goes, I will be thinking of you.

OH It got warm here!
14 inches of snow on Monday and we are in the 60's maybe even 78 today and tonorrow...before chilly weather returns next week.
BUT no more snow I pray.
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Hmmm i wish my husband would have asked me for a divoce!!! I have 3 grown childen,29,30,33 there all married now,and they all say we were both good people but not together there was to much truma and not anough chilling..
I'm 60 cute as a bug just like you BF,and yes i'm dating and really loving my life,please take your time go foward because trying to do overs is just more truma.. and many blessings, Sue Oh and about to be first time grandmama May 1st are when he decides..
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