[Dmom3005]

Hi everyone.

I really don't know what to think or do.

Devin, Will's dad called me yesterday night. About 10pm. And starts
cussing and ranting about someone he brought into our life's. And
that if his dad doesn't kick her out of the house Danny rents.

We wont see Will anymore. Ugh, I have no control of who moves in
with who. And this happens because she was originally his roommate.
Paying rent which I'm sure Danny loved the idea of.

But she has a big mouth, wont stay out of Jessica and Danny's business.
And might be using some of her stuff. Along with Danny having thrown
away some of her clothes because they looked like rags to him. I know
that part happened before this girl.

We can help replace the make-up if she is using it. Derrick and I gave
her a lot of it for Christmas.

But the thing that got my husband and me too. Was supposedly Ethan
my other grandson's game machines and games were missing.
Danny says they are still there. And if he doesn't still have his xbox 360,
that he took with him. He can have his xbox.

Ugh, my life just all cooped up. With everyone's problems.

I didn't put this in the other thread. I want to keep it something I can read.
And enjoy.

donna

[waves]

I am sorry these problms are going on.

I am not sure who is getting rid of the toys or why, but it sounds like that needs to stop, more than things being replaced or people being thrown out. If this girl doesn't get along, then they need to sort it out.

I was not sure why Devin was upset if it is Danny who is being interfered with. Is Danny also upset? How does this impact Devin and Will?

Also not sure why Devin expects you to do something about it. Maybe he doesn't, really? Maybe he just needed to rant, and will calm down after a while?

waves

[Dmom3005]

Sorry, I forgot to put in that he believes the girl called cps on him.
I keep telling him that if they got called, and think there is anything
to the story. He would have been visited by now.

And yep, Danny has been told to stop throwing things away.
Ugh, life. I was venting too.

Thanks Waves.

[Mari]

Originally Posted by Dmom3005

Sorry, I forgot to put in that he believes the girl called cps on him.
I keep telling him that if they got called, and think there is anything
to the story. He would have been visited by now.

And yep, Danny has been told to stop throwing things away.
Ugh, life. I was venting too.

Thanks Waves.

Donna,

Venting is important.
I can see why Devin is upset about a potential call from CPS.
No one should be threatening him about Will.

M

[Dmom3005]

Mari

Somewhat correct. See Jessica and Ethan moved out probably in February.
Expecting to come back when Danny had done one of two things.
Don't get me wrong. She was correct. See Danny had turned the water
off, because of a pipe bursting. But he didn't tell my husband. And didn't
till The "new Woman" moved in fix them. Her step-dad fixed them.

She supposedly has some problems with stealing, and is not supposed
to be around kids. But cps when involved with house checks for cleanliness
knew she was staying there. See she was helping with expenses. By paying
Devin some money. But she is on SSI, and that only goes so far.

If I can get them past this. It will be okay.
Jessica and Ethan are going to move into one of our other houses.
That was supposed to be the three of them's. We will help with
utilities for now. And she will do some work for Dale, taxes and
other things that we are really behind on. Its a good trade.

Yes, Probably more to say. But that would only confuse you.

Oh I forgot to state, Danny was so mad about some things last
week he blew up his car. And so to go to work he is borrowing
my van. But at least he is only driving it to work. He walks
around town otherwise. And is working to be a good citizen again.

Donna

[Jomar]

Why is this woman Not to be around kids?? was that court ordered?
Maybe the details of why need to be looked into.

[Mari]

Donna,

'Sorry that you are dealign with this.
I going to restate this and you can let me know if I have it mostly correct.

There is a New Woman in your lives.
The New Woman lives with Danny and Jessica.
The three of them live in a house owned by you and your husband.
Devin is upset about this New Woman.

Devin wants that New Woman out of Danny's house or he will not let you and your husband see Will any more.
The New Woman is using Jessica's stuff.
Danny "accidentally" threw away some of The New Woman's clothes.


Ethan is your other grandson -- cousin to Will.
Some of Ethan's X- Box and other electronic games are gone -- perhaps because the New Woman took them.

Danny is sticking up for the New Woman by saying that Ethan can have his (Danny's) X- Box.

++++
That is weird.
Devin is upset and Danny is trying to calm things down.

Weird. Did I get most of that right??

Remind them that you want things to go smoothly and for every one to get along peacefully.

M