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bizi	07-07-2014 08:51 PM

steve, maybe your dad had a living will. My f-i-l has one that specifies that he doesn't want artificial feedings or fluids.
I am sorry...
losing family and friends hurt.
((((((HUGS))))))
bizi

Mari	07-07-2014 08:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Brokenfriend (Post 1080626)

Bizi Thank you. I also lost my best life long friend who lived down in Mississippi. He died two days before my dad did,but I didn't find out about his death until 4,or 5 days later. I still struggle with my friend who's not there anymore. I can't email him,or talk to him on facebook. This hurts.

My dad was 92,then suddenly he seemed to not understand,or hear what we were saying. Then he caught pneumonia,and died two weeks later. I didn't like the fact that he didn't have a IV saline drip for him in that nursing home. BF:hug::hug::hug:

Hi, Steve,

Sending hugs and prayers.

Mari

Hockey

07-07-2014 09:38 PM

No matter how old we are, when a parent passes, we feel orphaned.

I will hope that your father-in-law departs this life peacefully. :hug:

Brokenfriend

07-08-2014 02:00 AM

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Originally Posted by bizi (Post 1080709)

steve, maybe your dad had a living will. My f-i-l has one that specifies that he doesn't want artificial feedings or fluids.
I am sorry...
losing family and friends hurt.
((((((HUGS))))))
bizi

Bizi That occurred to me. He may have had a "Do not resuscitate",or a"No Code"in place. My sister,and brother in law took care of those details. I haven't asked them yet. I may,but I'm not sure. I signed the death certificate. BF:hug::hug::hug:

Brokenfriend

07-08-2014 02:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Hockey (Post 1080724)

No matter how old we are, when a parent passes, we feel orphaned.

I will hope that your father-in-law departs this life peacefully. :hug:

That's true Hockey. Both of mine have passed away,and at times I don't know how to respond to my thoughts of the reality that they both are gone. I can't talk to them because they are gone. They were always there,but my mother had become emotionally distant. BF:hug::hug::hug:

Mari	07-08-2014 03:06 AM

Bizi, :Heart: :Heart: :Heart:

I hope for peace for your father-in-law and send good thoughts for your mother-in-law and husband.

I hope that you are going to be o.k. while he is out of town.

Do you have anything planned for yourself?

M

bizi	07-08-2014 03:59 PM

Thanks for asking Mari,
you know that I don't like to be alone so will have to stay busy.
since I started my new diet and abstaining from alcohol on july 1st, I want to stick to this and not lose my momentum. I have lost 2 pounds already and feel good not drinking.
I will probably be eating more of sandras food from the cafe that I have lunch at. they make a wonderful chicken salad. and have fresh organic produce.
may get brave and try new things. I know that I will be making more trips to the gym, may go every night to walk on the treadmill.
again thanks for asking.
bizi

Brokenfriend

07-08-2014 08:16 PM

Bizi I'm sorry that you are lonely. I hope that you have a peaceful night.

I hope that your father in law(Larry) is getting the help that he needs in this time of the end of life experience.

I pray that Jeff has the grace to go though this. I hope that I got the names right. BF:hug::hug::hug:

bizi	07-09-2014 08:12 PM

I just found out that my father in law died today. Jeff is there now with his mom, don't know when services are going to be held just yet.
wanted you to know what a relief. He is at peace now.
thanks friends
bizi

Mari	07-09-2014 08:25 PM

Bizi, :hug::hug::hug:

It is good that Jeff is there.

M

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