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Old 08-11-2015, 05:59 PM #11
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i think i am going to tell him i am bipolar and can't take the stress. your poor friend.
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i think i am going to tell him i am bipolar and can't take the stress. your poor friend.
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I stay in the closet re bipolar but any answer that gets you out of doing something you do not want is a good idea.
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Old 08-11-2015, 07:17 PM #13
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he is being pushy!
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I will not give up in this weight loss journey, nor this need to be AF. 3-19-13=156, 6-7-13=139, 8-19-13=149, 11-12-13=140, 6-28-14=157, 7-24-14=149, 9-24-14=144, 1-12-15=164, 2-28-15=149, 4-21-15=143, 6-26-15=138.5, 7-22-15=146, 8-24-15=151, 9-15-15=145, 11-1-15=137, 11-29-15=143, 1-4-16=152, 1-26-16=144, 2-24-16=150, 8-15-16=163, 1-4-17=169, 9-20-17=174, 11-17-17=185.6, 3-22-18=167.9, 8-31-18= 176.3, 3-6-19=190.8 5-30-20=176, 1-4-21=202, 10-4-21= 200.8,12-10-21=186, 3-26-22=180.3, 7-30-22=188, 10-15-22=180.9,
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it is so hard
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please don't stop going to the center.
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Happiness is a decision....

150mg of lamictal 2x a day
haldol 5mg 2x a day
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I will not give up in this weight loss journey, nor this need to be AF. 3-19-13=156, 6-7-13=139, 8-19-13=149, 11-12-13=140, 6-28-14=157, 7-24-14=149, 9-24-14=144, 1-12-15=164, 2-28-15=149, 4-21-15=143, 6-26-15=138.5, 7-22-15=146, 8-24-15=151, 9-15-15=145, 11-1-15=137, 11-29-15=143, 1-4-16=152, 1-26-16=144, 2-24-16=150, 8-15-16=163, 1-4-17=169, 9-20-17=174, 11-17-17=185.6, 3-22-18=167.9, 8-31-18= 176.3, 3-6-19=190.8 5-30-20=176, 1-4-21=202, 10-4-21= 200.8,12-10-21=186, 3-26-22=180.3, 7-30-22=188, 10-15-22=180.9,
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Hi Bobby,

I am sorry he is making you feel uncomfortable.

Sometimes, new "friends" will test boundaries.

I think he had hoped to see you at the senior center.

It's important to define your boundaries and it's more than okay to educate others about your boundaries.

If you are feeling too pressured by his behaviors, its fine to let him know this.

Many women might feel pressured by this.
Some may not.

What matters is: You are feeling uncomfortable.

You get to set the pace.

Know your own boundaries.
Communicate about boundaries early in the friendship.

I have been watching single friends again negotiate the world of dating.
It's been very difficult for them. It's easier for them when they communicate clearly upfront. People hoping for something different tend to then go elsewhere.

Enjoy the day!



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haldol 5mg 2x a day
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klonipin , 1mg at night


I will not give up in this weight loss journey, nor this need to be AF. 3-19-13=156, 6-7-13=139, 8-19-13=149, 11-12-13=140, 6-28-14=157, 7-24-14=149, 9-24-14=144, 1-12-15=164, 2-28-15=149, 4-21-15=143, 6-26-15=138.5, 7-22-15=146, 8-24-15=151, 9-15-15=145, 11-1-15=137, 11-29-15=143, 1-4-16=152, 1-26-16=144, 2-24-16=150, 8-15-16=163, 1-4-17=169, 9-20-17=174, 11-17-17=185.6, 3-22-18=167.9, 8-31-18= 176.3, 3-6-19=190.8 5-30-20=176, 1-4-21=202, 10-4-21= 200.8,12-10-21=186, 3-26-22=180.3, 7-30-22=188, 10-15-22=180.9,
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dear dejavu
very good advice. would it be okay to tell him i am bipolar and can't take stress?
I don't know what else to say. I am scared he will get angry and say something nasty. maybe he won't
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please don't stop going to the center.
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i won't stop going to the center although i didn't go yesterday because of him.
he should know by now i think i am not interested even though i said i would see him. I think i might be giving him mixed messages.
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