My husband has been drinking every day so far, but he hasn't gotten really drunk once. Yesterday I got him to throw away some crap I've been wanting him to get rid of for a long time. If he throws more out today I will consider that a victory, and if he throws more out tomorrow, I'll consider that a miracle :)

He didn't want to go to the outlets yesterday. He wanted to go today instead, but it is going to rain, so I went without him. There weren't many long sleeved shirts to be found, which was discouraging. I should have made the trip earlier. I'm very self-conscious, so I'm very picky about what I will/won't wear, and I have a terrible time trying to make decisions. I could have used a second set of eyes. In the end, I wound up finding 4 shirts I'm pleased with. I wasn't up to modeling, but my husband liked my choices. I was there forever, walked forever, and was exhausted. And of course I was up at 5am again this morning. I guess I will try to make up for some the abuse I inflicted upon myself during today's nap.

I didn't text my sister yesterday and I didn't hear from her either. I definitely will be contacting her this evening tho. I find it odd that she's not even curious enough, never mind concerned enough, to call to find out exactly why her sister is having surgery. If she is too self-involved or otherwise unavailable to be there for my husband, (in short) the responsibility will likely fall upon his mother, and that's okay by me. After all, this will be a supportive role. He will be the one making the decisions.

I'm less anxious about the surgery this morning for some reason.

that is great about the shirts and being less anxious. I don;t like your sister.
I am glad corey isn't getting drunk, that is a big step

I am thinking maybe just have his mom help him.
I would honestly guess he would be more comfortable talking to
her anyway.

But not sure.

Donna :hug::grouphug:

Kay,
 

Good luck with your Thursday appt.



I got lost in the threads -- apologies.
When is the surgery?


I am hoping for a good outcome. :)


M

I believe her surgery is friday, tomorrow.
bizi

Yes, her surgery is tomorrow.

I want to wish you a good recovery and surgery.
I know I wont be on before you leave tomorrow.

Donna :hug::grouphug:

me too
love
bobby

Since my sister hadn't called by last night, I texted her and asked if she'd be available if my husband needed her. She said she had been too busy at Disney to call... she never mentioned she was going. I just responded, "I will have him call his mother." And that was the end of that conversation.

I called my aunt and let her know about the procedures I'm having done. She was very supportive. She's very disappointed in my sister.

My surgery is at 7:30am, so I have to be at the hospital for 6.

Thank you all for the well wishes (((HUGS)))

I am glad that you have an aunt to depend on.
bizi
(((HUGS)))

I am too!
love
bobby