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Old 07-31-2016, 05:38 AM #1
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i know it will work out and it will be better
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Fear, and depression are horrible when it is stirred up, and triggered. Fear of/and or rejection, and fear of being abandoned is even worse when all stirred up together.

My sister, who died last August said that I would not fall between the cracks.

I mentioned rent, or worse to a family member on line. My next of kin seems to have disconnected communication with me. Other people talk for him. I don't think that he likes me. BF

Sometimes when people don't want to engage with us, it's not because they don't like or love us, it's because they have a hard time dealing with mental illness…

I think a lot of people have a hard time talking to me because they're afraid to say the wrong thing, or they're afraid to hear what I'm going to say. It doesn't make them bad people, they just don't know any better, and it's their problem, not mine.

I'm sorry you have to go through this BF.
I hope your go-between is good, and is able to help you work this out
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BF,
I really hope you can at least email the family member you had mentioned the rent issue with. At least mention to that person (in an email); that you may have misunderstood about the rent; but since there is not much left over, paying rent would really be a hardship and is causing you awful stress and worry.

Possibly your next of kin may just be uncomfortable communicating himself/herself and it has nothing to do with liking you or not.

Hopefully prayers and our concern will give you the added confidence to get this settled asap.

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yes friend I think what ger has said makes sense.
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I took a nap, and woke up feeling like I was about to start shaking deep inside. I still feel like I'm about to shake deep down inside myself.

I feel a general fear of being abandoned. BF
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I am so sorry friend
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I took a nap, and woke up feeling like I was about to start shaking deep inside. I still feel like I'm about to shake deep down inside myself.

I feel a general fear of being abandoned. BF

BF, I think you could use a few's
I Pray you will be able to shake these feelings. I think it was Easter; you got with your nieces. So when it comes to holidays; evidently, they do not forget about you. For the most part, they are dealing with every day issues that come up in their life; but it does not mean they would forget their mother's brother.


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I'm now just pain frightened down inside. These emotions are so complicated. I hope that it subsides, but it does come, and go. I seem to feel frozen in my tracks.

I hate these feelings. The emotional pain is so complicated, throwing many different emotions into my life. It seems to bog me down physically also. My sleep is also messed up right now. BF
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Dear Friend,

I hope that you can be o.k.

Does listening to music help you?

How is your kittie cat?

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