I am not sure if some of my clothes have disappeared. I have given a lot to alicia which I will never wear again but there are new clothes that I bought that I can't find...like two that I can think of. I asked about a pair of blue ones and she said she didn't know but she supposed put them away. then there was a green outfit and all i can find are the pants. I like her. Part of me can't be bothered because I am really exhausted. I am very generous. she hasn't taken any money. Marcia I totally trust. I just can't take any pressure. she really loves animals. I give her an hour off to do outside whatever she wants to do. she does the minimum. most of the workers at the agency are awful.

Don't ask Alicia to put away any of your clothing, even if it would make things easier on you if she did it. Then you would know where things were, and would have a better idea if any of it turned up missing

I would also keep an eye on where other things that are near and dear to you, and count your Klonopin on a regular basis. Money may not be missing, but hide your check book. And no, I don't think those are paranoid things to do...

It would be very disappointing to find out that someone you really like and have been so generous to is stealing from you, but it's not unprecedented. It happens all the time

I could tell if she goes into the cabinet where I keep my pills. I will put away my clothes from now on or watch her. she does the laundry and has to put away the clothes.. I am so unbelievably generous. I forgot if i mentioned I buy her cats little cat toys. she isn't even my size and she is short.

I am obsessing about the missing clothes. I think I will ask her if she thought i meant she could take some of these clothes not just the others. I am wearing the green pants but can't find the green jacket. I just found the green jacket. all that obsessing for nothing. two other things i don't know about though

Maybe you will find those, too.

It would be nice to find out that you don't have to worry that Alicia has been dishonest with you

i don;t think i have to worry. I gave alicia a lot more clothes and asked what she did with them. she said she gives them away. yesterday she even cleaned the mirror and didn;t take her free hour off. we talked. she commented about my overbuying and i told her it was an illness and the doctor would decrease my antidepressants if he knew I was still doing it. se told me she got her eight year old mexican dog chi wawa(can't spell it ) when he was three weeks old.

I'm glad you don't have to worry about her, and she decided to spend the hour talking to you. It's always nice to talk to another animal lover

i had written that she feeds 10 feral cats and helps rescuing animals!

She really is an animal lover then! Feeding all those cats and taking care of all those animals she rescues must be expensive!

alicia and i have the same birthday. yesterday she may have had thrown out batteries from bed bath and beyond. I called them. they will send me another pack free. I told them they might have been thrown out