Well at least he did something !!!!!!!
a kiss is good positive reinforcement, tell him he will get more if he is good and helps you out.
You are a good wife and have taken so much crap....from him.
sigh
you are really making some progress!
happy for you kay.
(((((HUGS)))))
bizi

I just heard from the lady at the new apartment complex, and got WONDERFUL NEWS!!! She told me that everything was going our way, and we will be able to sign our lease and begin moving in the Friday before the 1st!!! :):):)

THIS IS THE BEST WE COULD HAVE HOPED FOR, SO I AM SO ****ING RELIEVED!!! :)

I will be able to view the apartment Monday or Tuesday of next week :)

that is so fantastic! I am so happy for you
love
bobby
can you call corey?

Good news!


That's great, Kay.



M

Yeah !!!!!!
I'll bet you are breathing a great big sigh of relief!!!!


Gerry

You need to give your self a pat on the back or a treat. Because its honestly
because you kept getting updates that she had this news.

Donna :grouphug::hug:

Yes doing the happy dance for you.:Dancing-Chilli:
This is awesome!!!!!!
bizi

Thank you :grouphug:
I'm so happy!!! Still anxious, but not to the extent I was before... I was off the rails! I have a lot to do, but I will have time to clean this apartment for a couple of days while it's empty before we have to turn in the keys now, so that takes some pressure off. I still need to chip away at my list because I am so slow, and I can't do everything that needs to be done in a couple of days, AND deal with the move-IN/settling in, too. I'm sure Corey won't be helping with either.

I called Corey IMMEDIATELY to share the good news. It's rare that he answers the phone while he's working, but he did. He was in a bad mood tho, and wasn't as happy as I thought he'd be. Maybe he needs time to let it sink in, or won't feel better until I finalize moving arrangements in general, or with my brother-in-law, who I texted yesterday, and am waiting to hear back from.

I got my new address yesterday, so along with the move-in date, I can get some business done today. After discussing things with my husband last night, I can also reserve a U-Haul truck. So, some details are coming together now :)

Per the lease, it turns out we do have to get the kitties their rabies shots anyway. Fortunately, PetCo is having a clinic Saturday so we can get that over with without having to pay for the cost of the vet visits. Thank God it's on a weekend when Corey can help... I can't carry Buddy, who is 7lbs, in a carrier... so, forget about lugging around Rocky and Dottie, who are both over 20lbs. That is a big factor in why they don't get regular vet care.

I have a "self-cleaning" oven, but it doesn't clean itself. In preparation for the move, I cleaned it the old-fashioned way yesterday, and OMG was it brutal! I let the cleanser sit for hours, so I didn't have to scrub, but I swear you have to be an acrobat to get in there around the oven door! The ****ing thing is clean now, but it took me hours, and my body is screaming at me today! I cleaned the bathroom while I was waiting for the oven cleaner to work, and I'm sure that didn't help.

I can tell that the Baclofen is helping with my spasticity because, even for a little while in the morning, my legs feel "looser." But I think I need to cut the 10mg dose in half so I don't hurt myself with those loose legs...
I'm getting up, I guess to pee, at least once in the middle of the night, which is rare for me. I'm not sure I'm even peeing, but I'm falling asleep on the toilet, and kinda sleep walking while I'm on it... I'm in and out, and aware that I'm grabbing for things in the air, on the counter, and on the floor... totally bizarre. Then I wake up to Rocky's staring at me, wondering what the hell I'm doing, or maybe enjoying the show. Last night I dropped a whole roll of TP in the toilet.
I was on much higher doses of Baclofen in the past, and during the day too, and never did **** like this... but I also never took it with 700mg of Seroquel, and a bunch of of other meds (Topamax, lithium, Lamictal, gabapentin), too.
I take less much less med in the morning, but this situation makes me all the more hesitant to start taking it during the day, at least anytime soon.

Kay, please be careful!!!!!
I have to say again how happy I am that things are working out. Yes I too believe that your being very assertive in the ordeal that they insured that it was /will be ready.
good for you!!!!
have a good day!
bizi:hug:

The lady in the office has told me several times that she hand-picked us for this particular apartment, which has a beautiful view of the lake, and is getting pretty much brand new everything.

I think it's because:
1) We are excellent prospective tenants, having stayed in the same apartment, paying high rent, for 7 1/2hrs without being late with a payment, and
2) She likes me. I like to do business in person whenever possible, and it usually pays off.

I think that those factors helped grease the wheels more than anything, and that there was a good deal of luck involved. I did plead my case when we were discussing issues with any delays, but I was very anxious, so I could hardly say I was really being assertive...