I'm sorry you fell again :hug::hug::hug:

I'm glad that you didn't hit your head, but I'm sorry that you are sore :hug:

It is Marci's job to clean. She has no business getting upset with you. All she can do is clean what she can in the time she has, starting with the most important areas first... I would start with the bathroom and kitchen. Social time is not a guaranteed part of her job.

I agree with kay, she has a job to do.
((((HUGS))))
sorry you fell out of bed.
Could you get one of those support bars that attach to your bed they are not that intrusive and about 1 foot wide.
let me see if I can find a picture for you.
(((((HUGS)))))
bizi

What the heck?

Does the cleaning lady really get upset? Or is it something else?

Maybe she wants the place to look good when she leaves so she hopes to
start with the place being mostly in good shape???

At any rate, you might not be able to change her mind about how things
are supposed to go.

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But you can be relaxed about the status of your home.
She is cleaning for you.



M

I am really messy

She's supposed to mostly keep her mouth shut and do her job.

If the place is messy, she does what she can and leaves at the

time she's supposed to leave.

She is really really really not supposed to criticize.:mad:

M

we are friends and she talks a lot and she cares and worries about me and thinks that I spend too much time in bed but i don;t want to sit in a chair and I don't have a sofa. yesterday I put my foot down when she said lets have music and I said I want to read

Good for you. Reading!


M

Medline Bed Assist Bar - Walmart.com

it is about 1 foot wide.
hope this takes you to it. If not I googled small bed side rail.
bizi

thanks. I looked it up on amazon. this is only the second time i fell out of bed.
i have lost more weight and am trying to sleep or lie in middle of the bed.

When I was a home health aide I cleaned a ton of really messy apartments and was still on really friendly terms with the clients. I just did the best I could.

I do like how concerned she is about you. I think she has your best interests at heart and I think she's been giving you good advice, but she shouldn't be forcing anything on you :hug::hug::hug:

I'm glad that you are trying to be safer when you are sleeping.

Congratulations on your weight loss! :):):)