and always thinking good thoughts for you
bobby

Bobby

As I read your comments. My first and really only thoughts were.

Wow, Bobby has commented many times she doesn't think this
lady gets her.

Now I really get how she feels this way. My very first thought
was why would she go to telling and showing pictures of the walk
with her dog. And talking about a two block walk. KNowing
your restrictions, and how you want to do that too.

I personally think she is honestly doing you more harm than good
now. I really think you should look into whether you can do this
without her. I would rather you not have any one than her at
this point.

I know you need someone, but I see this as someone that needs
to talk to you about her not you.

Donna

i don't know what to do. i don't know what agency she comes from or whom i could talk to about her. I do need somebody to talk to. even issues with my stroke. I just realized today the building might not be late with my lease. I might not have counted right. I used to be really superior in math. Now I am brain damaged and need help.
today I forgot if I took my pills. I just thought of a system I will use. Now I don't know if I doubled the pills or not. Now I will leave a ramipril out.

Bobby

See if you can get ahold of the group that sends your worker.

Do you have like a case manager, or someone that can help
keep your records straight. Help you figure out when things are
due.

If not see if the company that sends your workers, has something
like that. They might also have someone that can come help you
figure out your medicine in an system that will work for you.

Then this person might be able to help you figure out who this person,
works through. So you can figure out who you might talk to about her.
And see if there is someone else that can come instead.

If you need more help keep asking questions we will all keep trying to
help.

Donna

Are you talking about how you get irritable around her?

It's o.k. to point out when she's being obnoxious / irritating.



M

It seems like she's trying to help you in the best way she can, but she's missing the mark, and seems dense at times. Sometimes therapists are just not the right fit, and I think that's the case here. Most therapists understand that, and aren't offended if you ask for a change.

I remember at one point you connected with a woman who set you up with a lot of services, including the therapist, but I don't remember where she was from...

I hope that your depression and anxiety improves, Bobby. I'm thinking good thoughts for you

she irritates me but i am already irritable. marci cleaned the monitor and i had to wait for robert to fix it. i did get my lease today.

robert spotted the problem in two seconds. I was wrong about when I should have gotten the lease. My math was off by a month. I felt so stupid and all that worry. I started exercising in the hall by walking. It is something although I can only do it two lengths two or three times a day. before I could do it four times with only a little problem. i don't know what to do about my therapist.

Glad to hear that the lease issue has been figured out and that it was finally taken care of. Don't feel too bad about the math. Doing the math can be hard enough even without having to deal with trying to recover from having a stroke.

I’m SOOO glad you don’t have to worry about that lease anymore!!! (((HUGS)))