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Hubby and I had a "talk" that involved my crying that went on
for a long time. Also some yelling on my part. I can be thankful perhaps
that he is calm and not crazy in the same way I am.
HE DOES NOT GET IT!
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The genes run all over the family tree. I am trying even if it seems that
I am not.

Not feeling rested or strong or capable. And do not even feel like showering except that I
have to be at work in the a.m.

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Oh mari,
i just read what you wrote.
I am so sorry to hear that you were crying for a long time.
((((((HUGS)))))
I wish that I could be there in real life to help support you, be a friend.....I am glad that your hubby is calm, but am really frustrated with him that he does not get it.

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Thanks, Bizi,


I just ran across this and somehow found it somewhat helpful:


Isaiah 40:28
Don't you know? Haven't you heard? The LORD is the eternal God, the
Creator of the ends of the earth. He does not grow tired or weary; and his understanding cannot be fathomed.


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I hope that you can get some rest tonight.
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Happiness is a decision....

150mg of lamictal 2x a day
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klonipin , 1mg at night


I will not give up in this weight loss journey, nor this need to be AF. 3-19-13=156, 6-7-13=139, 8-19-13=149, 11-12-13=140, 6-28-14=157, 7-24-14=149, 9-24-14=144, 1-12-15=164, 2-28-15=149, 4-21-15=143, 6-26-15=138.5, 7-22-15=146, 8-24-15=151, 9-15-15=145, 11-1-15=137, 11-29-15=143, 1-4-16=152, 1-26-16=144, 2-24-16=150, 8-15-16=163, 1-4-17=169, 9-20-17=174, 11-17-17=185.6, 3-22-18=167.9, 8-31-18= 176.3, 3-6-19=190.8 5-30-20=176, 1-4-21=202, 10-4-21= 200.8,12-10-21=186, 3-26-22=180.3, 7-30-22=188, 10-15-22=180.9,
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thanks so much for the quote. it is so easy to forget. so sorry you are going through a very rough period instead of just the rough times you usually have.A lot of times lately I ask myself why
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I'm sorry that you have to keep having these talks and/or arguments in an effort to try to get your husband to understand how hard things are for you- and he still doesn't get it... and they must be so terribly draining (for lack of a better word)
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I should stop explaining things to him. It makes him feel worse and that does not help me. He's already got some issues.

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Is your husband trying, but unable to really understand or act upon what you want/need him to do?

I understand that you are considering his issues, but I think you have a need to express your feelings and keep trying to get your needs met

I'm glad you got some sleep... not enough tho
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Just thinking of you tonight.
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Happiness is a decision....

150mg of lamictal 2x a day
haldol 5mg 2x a day
1mg of cogentin 2x a day
klonipin , 1mg at night


I will not give up in this weight loss journey, nor this need to be AF. 3-19-13=156, 6-7-13=139, 8-19-13=149, 11-12-13=140, 6-28-14=157, 7-24-14=149, 9-24-14=144, 1-12-15=164, 2-28-15=149, 4-21-15=143, 6-26-15=138.5, 7-22-15=146, 8-24-15=151, 9-15-15=145, 11-1-15=137, 11-29-15=143, 1-4-16=152, 1-26-16=144, 2-24-16=150, 8-15-16=163, 1-4-17=169, 9-20-17=174, 11-17-17=185.6, 3-22-18=167.9, 8-31-18= 176.3, 3-6-19=190.8 5-30-20=176, 1-4-21=202, 10-4-21= 200.8,12-10-21=186, 3-26-22=180.3, 7-30-22=188, 10-15-22=180.9,
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Tuesday, when I ran into hubby at work, he told me his throat hurt

(When he's sick I have to guess what he means.)

. . . . so on the way home I bought soup and fruit and other things.
He had a low fever/ with aspirin and some sleep it came down to normal in a four hours.
By the next day, he still felt awful with congestion or whatever -- does not explain things very well.

I guess he is feeling well enough to go to a 100% B.S. (not-required) meeting
tomorrow/Friday -- although I have advised that he stay home.


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