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bizi 10-25-2018 11:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mari (Post 1268956)
Kay,

Thanks.

I have an appointment this afternoon.


I do not expect med changes. I will tell her I am mostly o.k. even though that
is not truthful.



M


This is why I asked if you told her the truth?
I am sorry she upset you. I believe that you get some stability from work.
If I stopped working I would be a mess.
((((HUGS))))
bizi

Dmom3005 10-26-2018 09:31 AM

Mari

Next time she tells you this.

Ask her if you get denied for disability, is she going to
pay you the amount your due. Since it was her idea.

Because many don't get approved. And I agree with
Bizi you get help with the working for your stability.

Donna:hug::grouphug:

OhKay 10-26-2018 03:08 PM

If you can work, and still want to, tell her to go f- herself. It is your life, and you know what you are capable of, and what works for you, and what doesn't. I don't know how assertive you can be, but you need to tell her once and for all that the subject is NOT up for discussion because it only upsets you :hug::hug::hug:

I went into a downward spiral after I had to stop working, and I don't think I've really ever fully recovered from it... but it was my decision to make, not that I really had a choice in the matter.

If and when it is ever time to go on disability YOU will know it, Mari :hug::hug::hug:

Mari 10-28-2018 01:23 AM

I really want to keep this pdoc. She is better than the last three I had.

I wish she would be ok with my status of feeling depressed & crummy but
stable.



M

OhKay 10-28-2018 08:12 AM

Maybe in time she will come to understand how you feel and learn to accept it :hug::hug::hug:

Mari 10-28-2018 05:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bizi (Post 1269071)
This is why I asked if you told her the truth?
I am sorry she upset you. I believe that you get some stability from work.
If I stopped working I would be a mess.
((((HUGS))))
bizi


I've been reporting my symptoms to her at each monthly visit for the past
18 months.

She sees me crying each visit.

I am as open as a wound.


M

bizi 10-28-2018 06:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mari (Post 1269149)
I've been reporting my symptoms to her at each monthly visit for the past
18 months.

She sees me crying each visit.

I am as open as a wound.


M

I am sorry it is so hard for you.
((((HUGS)))):hug:
bizi

Dmom3005 10-29-2018 06:09 PM

I sure wish she could figure out how to help you.

Donna :grouphug::hug:

OhKay 10-30-2018 08:43 AM

I'm so sorry, Mari. I wish that your quality of life was much better :hug::hug::hug:

I hope that when you get a break, you can try a different med, and it helps you :hug::hug::hug:


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