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Old 10-23-2018, 10:29 AM #1
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Kay,

Thanks.

I have an appointment this afternoon.


I do not expect med changes. I will tell her I am mostly o.k. even though that
is not truthful.


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One thing has helped me lately.

I have done some work from home for a political campaign.

When I finished a several hours--long-task last night, I felt overwhelmingly at PEACE for a good while.

There's no other way to explain it -- I felt o.k.


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I've had to hide it from hubby because he believes this kind of stuff is stressful to me. But it is not the case.
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I’m so glad that you found peace from doing your volunteer work

Are you going to tell your pdoc you’re mostly okay because you don’t want her to push more drugs on you?
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How was your appointment yesterday?
Were you honest with her?
(((((HUGS)))))
Glad that you were able to do help out for a political campaign.
This is an important time.
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Why would I be dishonest with the mdoc?

Anyway, she gave me the same meds.

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She's a btch for having me in tears before I left . . . . telling me I need
to go on disability and not willing to listen to me when I said that I did not want to
. And the medical plan at work is important to me at the moment whereas what the state will do for me might be crummy and involve a long wait. THIS IS NOT UP TO HER.
THE DOC DOES NOT MAKE THIS DECISION FOR ME -- whether I work or not.
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I work three days a week. Sometimes two.
Much of my work is from home (email / texts / software ).





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Kay,

Thanks.

I have an appointment this afternoon.


I do not expect med changes. I will tell her I am mostly o.k. even though that
is not truthful.



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This is why I asked if you told her the truth?
I am sorry she upset you. I believe that you get some stability from work.
If I stopped working I would be a mess.
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I will not give up in this weight loss journey, nor this need to be AF. 3-19-13=156, 6-7-13=139, 8-19-13=149, 11-12-13=140, 6-28-14=157, 7-24-14=149, 9-24-14=144, 1-12-15=164, 2-28-15=149, 4-21-15=143, 6-26-15=138.5, 7-22-15=146, 8-24-15=151, 9-15-15=145, 11-1-15=137, 11-29-15=143, 1-4-16=152, 1-26-16=144, 2-24-16=150, 8-15-16=163, 1-4-17=169, 9-20-17=174, 11-17-17=185.6, 3-22-18=167.9, 8-31-18= 176.3, 3-6-19=190.8 5-30-20=176, 1-4-21=202, 10-4-21= 200.8,12-10-21=186, 3-26-22=180.3, 7-30-22=188, 10-15-22=180.9,
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Mari

Next time she tells you this.

Ask her if you get denied for disability, is she going to
pay you the amount your due. Since it was her idea.

Because many don't get approved. And I agree with
Bizi you get help with the working for your stability.

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If you can work, and still want to, tell her to go f- herself. It is your life, and you know what you are capable of, and what works for you, and what doesn't. I don't know how assertive you can be, but you need to tell her once and for all that the subject is NOT up for discussion because it only upsets you

I went into a downward spiral after I had to stop working, and I don't think I've really ever fully recovered from it... but it was my decision to make, not that I really had a choice in the matter.

If and when it is ever time to go on disability YOU will know it, Mari
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I really want to keep this pdoc. She is better than the last three I had.

I wish she would be ok with my status of feeling depressed & crummy but
stable.



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