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03-18-2018, 11:01 PM
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Hubby and I had a "talk" that involved my crying that went on
for a long time. Also some yelling on my part. I can be thankful perhaps that he is calm and not crazy in the same way I am. HE DOES NOT GET IT! =-=-=-=- The genes run all over the family tree. I am trying even if it seems that I am not. Not feeling rested or strong or capable. And do not even feel like showering except that I have to be at work in the a.m. M |
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03-18-2018, 11:19 PM
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Oh mari,
i just read what you wrote. I am so sorry to hear that you were crying for a long time. ((((((HUGS))))) I wish that I could be there in real life to help support you, be a friend.....I am glad that your hubby is calm, but am really frustrated with him that he does not get it.  bizi
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. Hattie the black and white one wrestling with hazel, calico. lost hattie to cancer..... Happiness is a decision.... 150mg of lamictal 2x a day haldol 5mg 2x a day 1mg of cogentin 2x a day klonipin , 1mg at night I will not give up in this weight loss journey, nor this need to be AF. 3-19-13=156, 6-7-13=139, 8-19-13=149, 11-12-13=140, 6-28-14=157, 7-24-14=149, 9-24-14=144, 1-12-15=164, 2-28-15=149, 4-21-15=143, 6-26-15=138.5, 7-22-15=146, 8-24-15=151, 9-15-15=145, 11-1-15=137, 11-29-15=143, 1-4-16=152, 1-26-16=144, 2-24-16=150, 8-15-16=163, 1-4-17=169, 9-20-17=174, 11-17-17=185.6, 3-22-18=167.9, 8-31-18= 176.3, 3-6-19=190.8 5-30-20=176, 1-4-21=202, 10-4-21= 200.8,12-10-21=186, 3-26-22=180.3, 7-30-22=188, 10-15-22=180.9, |
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03-18-2018, 11:21 PM
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Thanks, Bizi,
I just ran across this and somehow found it somewhat helpful: Isaiah 40:28 Don't you know? Haven't you heard? The LORD is the eternal God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He does not grow tired or weary; and his understanding cannot be fathomed. M |
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| "Thanks for this!" says: | bizi (03-18-2018), Brokenfriend (03-19-2018), Dmom3005 (03-21-2018), mymorgy (03-19-2018), OhKay (03-19-2018) |
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03-18-2018, 11:37 PM
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I hope that you can get some rest tonight.
(((((HUGS)))) bizi
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. Hattie the black and white one wrestling with hazel, calico. lost hattie to cancer..... Happiness is a decision.... 150mg of lamictal 2x a day haldol 5mg 2x a day 1mg of cogentin 2x a day klonipin , 1mg at night I will not give up in this weight loss journey, nor this need to be AF. 3-19-13=156, 6-7-13=139, 8-19-13=149, 11-12-13=140, 6-28-14=157, 7-24-14=149, 9-24-14=144, 1-12-15=164, 2-28-15=149, 4-21-15=143, 6-26-15=138.5, 7-22-15=146, 8-24-15=151, 9-15-15=145, 11-1-15=137, 11-29-15=143, 1-4-16=152, 1-26-16=144, 2-24-16=150, 8-15-16=163, 1-4-17=169, 9-20-17=174, 11-17-17=185.6, 3-22-18=167.9, 8-31-18= 176.3, 3-6-19=190.8 5-30-20=176, 1-4-21=202, 10-4-21= 200.8,12-10-21=186, 3-26-22=180.3, 7-30-22=188, 10-15-22=180.9, |
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03-19-2018, 07:55 AM
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thanks so much for the quote. it is so easy to forget. so sorry you are going through a very rough period instead of just the rough times you usually have.A lot of times lately I ask myself why
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03-19-2018, 09:14 AM
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I'm sorry that you have to keep having these talks and/or arguments in an effort to try to get your husband to understand how hard things are for you- and he still doesn't get it... and they must be so terribly draining (for lack of a better word)
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03-19-2018, 11:09 PM
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I should stop explaining things to him. It makes him feel worse and that does not help me. He's already got some issues.
=-=-= I made it into work on four hours' sleep. M |
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03-20-2018, 06:32 AM
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Is your husband trying, but unable to really understand or act upon what you want/need him to do?
I understand that you are considering his issues, but I think you have a need to express your feelings and keep trying to get your needs met I'm glad you got some sleep... not enough tho
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03-22-2018, 10:59 PM
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Wisest Elder Ever
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Just thinking of you tonight.
(((((HUGS))))) bizi
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. Hattie the black and white one wrestling with hazel, calico. lost hattie to cancer..... Happiness is a decision.... 150mg of lamictal 2x a day haldol 5mg 2x a day 1mg of cogentin 2x a day klonipin , 1mg at night I will not give up in this weight loss journey, nor this need to be AF. 3-19-13=156, 6-7-13=139, 8-19-13=149, 11-12-13=140, 6-28-14=157, 7-24-14=149, 9-24-14=144, 1-12-15=164, 2-28-15=149, 4-21-15=143, 6-26-15=138.5, 7-22-15=146, 8-24-15=151, 9-15-15=145, 11-1-15=137, 11-29-15=143, 1-4-16=152, 1-26-16=144, 2-24-16=150, 8-15-16=163, 1-4-17=169, 9-20-17=174, 11-17-17=185.6, 3-22-18=167.9, 8-31-18= 176.3, 3-6-19=190.8 5-30-20=176, 1-4-21=202, 10-4-21= 200.8,12-10-21=186, 3-26-22=180.3, 7-30-22=188, 10-15-22=180.9, |
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03-23-2018, 12:18 AM
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Tuesday, when I ran into hubby at work, he told me his throat hurt
(When he's sick I have to guess what he means.) . . . . so on the way home I bought soup and fruit and other things. He had a low fever/ with aspirin and some sleep it came down to normal in a four hours. By the next day, he still felt awful with congestion or whatever -- does not explain things very well. I guess he is feeling well enough to go to a 100% B.S. (not-required) meeting tomorrow/Friday -- although I have advised that he stay home. M |
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