Scared, but praying. BF:hug::hug::hug:

I am sure you are overwhelmed. and I am sorry you are scared.:hug:
Our good will has apartments for disabled people.
Also there is housing for the deaf which also houses for disabled people.
Our town is not that big 200,000.

Do you feel you need to stay in the same town

or move away for better housing options? a bigger city may have better options for you.
((((HUGS))))
bizi

You need to stick up for yourself, BF.
Tell your case manager to get off her ***** and look harder for another place because there has to be more than one option out there for you- because there has to be :hug::hug::hug:

(((HUGS)))

I have only one place to go, and it's a county next to this county. It's one bedroom and a bathroom. Steve:(

Do you like having on bedroom and a bathroom instead of sharing a place
with someone?

Did I read that having a roommate was being considered?

=-=-

Anyway, I hope that you are feeling alright.

I am hoping that this new place they are finding for you will bring
you some peace and comfort.

M

According to what I've been told, I would have a bedroom and bathroom, and I would share a kitchen and living room with someone who I don't know.

There goes the ham radio hobby, shortwave receiver hobby, antennas, and all of the other hobbies that I have compiled over the years.

There goes Lucy my cat. There goes my stereo equipment.

I'll be leaving a den, kitchen, laundry room, bedroom, and hobby room. I'll also be leaving my cat, Lucy. That breaks my heart. BF:(:hug:

perhaps you could set up some of your equipment/hobbies in your bedroom?
and you will be sharing a living room so there is room for wiggle room so to say.
And why can't lucy come too?
Is there a no pets allowed rule?
She is like your service pet. YOu could get your doctor to write a note saying that you need the cat for emotional support. I really think he could do that for you.
((((HUGS))))
I feel sorry with you.
bizi

My sister told me when I first moved here that it will never happen again. I was moved out of an apartment that was sold to a developer, and my sister moved me up to near where they live. At times we didn't get along in this period of time. She passed away three years ago. I have no family where I can move in with now.

I could use a good cheering up. My cat use to help me get through the night. She use to jump up on the sofa where I was lying down, and she laid down beside me in the evening late afternoon, or early evening. My niece said that they will take care of her for a while. That brings me a little comfort. BF:grouphug::(

My case manager said that having a cat was not an option. Everything is just going to fast. I just heard about it last week. My bol knows that I have mental health issues, and Kidney disease in the last six, or seven months. I won't have the money to buy the right kind of food anymore, because I'll have to pay some kind of rent.

My bol may have my information about this forum. I returned a laptop to my bol with all of this information and forums that I go to.

It would deeply hurt me more if I knew that they were following what I'm writing on this forum. BF:hug::hug::hug:

BF,
We can't see the whole story or outcome; but God does. What looks like total despair now may turn out to be better for you as well as no longer having to be dependent on your BOL.

As always,
Lots of love,
& Prayers

what does BOL stand for? brother in law?
bizi

I assumed BF had been referring to his Brother-in-law since I had seen bol mentioned in previous posts; I did caps so that may have been confusing and incorrect.

Gerry

I'm sorry. I meant bil. Somehow I strayed off the correct abbreviations when I said bol. I mean bil. BF:hug::grouphug:

(((((HUGS))))))
bizi
what do yo think about the note from your doctor about your cat?

I still can't believe that your case manager can't find anywhere else for you. I think that's BS. Can you contact the agency she works for and speak to someone there to see if they can find someone else to take a look for you?

I'm so sorry that if you have to move there that it will mean giving up your kitty and at least some of your hobbies... all sources of comfort for you :hug::hug::hug:

At least your rent will probably be based on income, so it will probably be very low. I hope it is VERY low :hug:

I would agree with Kay, contact the agency that your case manager
works for. Ask that they have someone else look for you an
place to live. Explain the situation.


I would not except the you can't have an cat. You should be able
to have the kitty for comfort, I would think with the almost 9 months
they have given you they can find a better place to go.

I would tell the case manager to keep looking. GIve some guidelines
as to what you need.

Donna :hug::grouphug:

I'm very depressed right now. I cannot reason right now. I feel deep grief, and feel shattered, and cannot think. BF:grouphug:

Sending prayers and thoughts.

Wish I had some ideas.

Donna :hug::grouphug:

Sorry about what you are going through, Friend.

BF,
It's very understandable with all you have been going through.

Praying this will soon pass and things will begin to get better.


Gerry

I'm sorry that you have to deal with all of this. I will keep hoping that someone can find a more suitable solution for your housing situation :hug::hug::hug:

I'm feeling like the family outcast. Does anyone else feel that way? I'm in a lot of pain. It's not fair. BF:hug::hug::hug:

friend you are right, it isn't fair.
I am sorry that you are in so much pain.
(((((HUGS)))))
bizi

BF,
When referring to you as BF; I was always thinking of you as BestFriend.

Wish I had the magic words to take the pain you feel away. You are very "special".


Gerry

Yes I have always felt that way

Yes, I have always felt that way, too.

My family usually only gives a crap about me one day a year... Thanksgiving. And even then, it's pretty superficial.

Thank you, Gerry. I appreciate that. You are definitely a nice person and a friend. BF:hug::grouphug:

Friend

I think you can start thinking about a new family. That is what we
are here too. We may not be close in area. But we are here for each
other. I wish I had some clue how your area was so I could help you
with your living situation.

I am not good with that kind of thing long distance. But family can
be many kinds.

Donna :hug::grouphug:

I'm supposed to sign some papers tomorrow about housing. I hope that it does not freak me out. I'm not taking this too well. BF:hug::hug::hug:

Friend,

Take one thing at a time. One moment at a time.


Sending lots of hugs.



M

i agree, take one thing at a time.
(((((HUGS)))))
bizi

I'm sorry that you are having a hard time dealing with your housing issues. This will be a difficult transition for you, and would be for anyone else :hug::hug::hug:

What kind of papers do you have to sign?
Do they want you to sign to accept that room with the common area?

and what about your kitty cat!

Kay I signed around 7 or 8 forms. I won't be getting a hud house for 7 to 10 years. They don't have review boards to look at my last mistake. I have to start all over again.

I don't know if that room is available anymore.

My sister would have not let this happen if she were alive. I'm sweating this out.

My councillor quit this summer. It takes a while to get a new one. They are going to appoint a temporary one for me soon. BF:hug::hug::hug:

That's good advice. One thing at a time. BF:hug::hug::hug:

I don't know Bobby. BF:hug::hug::hug:

of I am sorry you are having to deal with the paper work run around.
(((((HUGS)))))
bizi

Sending good thoughts.

We are here. Just keep us alert.

Donna :hug::grouphug:

Please cheer me up. BF:hug::hug::hug:

BF,
You got through sighing the forms; and you will continue to do whatever paperwork is necessary. You have to give yourself credit for taking each step as it has come. I realize it isn't easy. Have faith in yourself. You will accomplish all that is needed.

Gerry