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Old 09-06-2018, 03:36 PM #31
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The other thing is if HUD can't get you housing as soon as
you need. Your BIL probably should be held responsible
for the difference in the rent amount from your present to
your new amount.

And the moving cost and all. Because its his fault you are being
made to leave.

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I can hardly stand this future situation. I'm going to be away from the family. I'm being basically abandoned.

My case manager has written me some emails that Have Not Helped!!!


Am I going to lose my cat on top of everything else? I am hurting so bad. BF
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Dear Friend,


In ways that are not apparent at the moment, this is going to work out for you.


Be gentle and patient with yourself as best as you can.


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You can stipulate to your case manager or whoever is going to
help you find a new place. That your cat is not negotiable.

That he is your emotional therapy pet. And that he must be
accepted in your new place. They then need to find you an
place that will accept him.

I'm honestly not sure about a emotional therapy pet, but I would
ask your pdoc I think is what everyone calls them. To write you
an letter that your cat is this for you. And that he must be part
of your living arrangement.

THis hopefully would make it necessary for them to find a placement
that would let you have him then.

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I think you will find that there will be more than one option out there for you if you have to move.
They should be able to help find you a place where you can live where you can take your kitty

I'm so sorry this is happening to you, BF. But I'm glad that you can advocate for yourself, and you have the support of your case manager to help you through this. If she runs into problems, I'm sure she has her own support system in her office that will help her help you. You will not be thrown to the wolves
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you will find a place to live, you will NOT be homeless or abandoned.
This will work out for you and you will have help navigating your way to the future.
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At the end of last week, my case manager found a room and a bathroom with a shared kitchen, and living room.((But)) what about all my stuff, and my cat. The county is one that I've never lived in, and/or know anything about except that it has a Walmart.

I found out that my new case manager that I thought was so good has a cold streak in her. She is definitely not a mental health counsellor. She's bossy. She tries to make my decisions, and steps over the line. I've never had a case manager like her. She's good with forms.

I have till June the 1st. BF
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hugs for you this morning.

I am sorry that this is happening to you.
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I will not give up in this weight loss journey, nor this need to be AF. 3-19-13=156, 6-7-13=139, 8-19-13=149, 11-12-13=140, 6-28-14=157, 7-24-14=149, 9-24-14=144, 1-12-15=164, 2-28-15=149, 4-21-15=143, 6-26-15=138.5, 7-22-15=146, 8-24-15=151, 9-15-15=145, 11-1-15=137, 11-29-15=143, 1-4-16=152, 1-26-16=144, 2-24-16=150, 8-15-16=163, 1-4-17=169, 9-20-17=174, 11-17-17=185.6, 3-22-18=167.9, 8-31-18= 176.3, 3-6-19=190.8 5-30-20=176, 1-4-21=202, 10-4-21= 200.8,12-10-21=186, 3-26-22=180.3, 7-30-22=188, 10-15-22=180.9,
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Ugh, I'd tell her what the minimum room you need is.

If she isn't going to work then I'd ask for someone else
to help look for the place.

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