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08-28-2018, 02:38 PM | #1 | |||
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My niece and brother in law want to meet with my case manager. They didn't tell me first. I think that they are going to try to make arrangements to have me move out. Move out to where? What about my stuff, and what about my cat. I love my cat deeply. This is making me sick. BF I feel abandoned in advance and rejection, and fear.
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08-28-2018, 03:30 PM | #2 | |||
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I'm so sorry, BF
I can only hope that you are wrong about why they want to meet with your case manager... and that they are only concerned about your health |
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08-28-2018, 10:08 PM | #3 | |||
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My BOL is going to retire next Summer, and I've been told that he may be selling the property that I'm on. I live on this property. He has been talking about this too my niece.
I was wondering why they didn't call me first. This is strange. They want to meet this week with my case manager, but I'm too shaken up. We need to make it next week. That's what I emailed to them. Anxiety/depression/Kidney/age/knee and back pain is a bad combination to be dealing with, so a move might cause me to break down. I feel a sense of abandonment creeping into my emotions, and it doesn't feel good. What if everything has been said, and done, and I end up living on the streets. It could happen. BF |
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08-28-2018, 11:25 PM | #4 | |||
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Wisest Elder Ever
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I am sorry that things will change for you. Don't know what will happen and the is worse than knowing the truth. Right now please concentrate on maintaining your mental health. Call in your team members your case worker and your therapist if you have one.
I am glad that you have us but you need real life support right now. This is crisis mode for you . I understand your fear. I think they will help you to figure out your home situation. You may need to find hud housing or section 8 housing or what ever else they call low income housing.. They will not put you to the streets!!!!! lots of hugs (((((((HUGS)))))))
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08-29-2018, 10:00 AM | #5 | ||
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Friend
Your team can work this out. And it sounds like your niece and Brother-in-law are giving them time to work it out. Work on getting your health back on track this week. And have the team work to set up the meeting when you are ready to have the meeting. Donna |
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"Thanks for this!" says: | bizi (08-29-2018), Brokenfriend (08-29-2018), mymorgy (08-29-2018), OhKay (08-29-2018), PurpleFoot721 (08-29-2018) |
08-29-2018, 07:27 PM | #6 | |||
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My parents have passed away, and so has my sister. My last Uncle who cared about me passed away a couple of years ago. I now have no family members to cheer me up.
My counseller resigned and has left her position about 3, or 4 weeks ago. My brother in law doesn't want to talk to me for some reason. He wants my niece to talk to me, but she only talks to me through the internet. It looks like I'm going to be abandoned by the last family members that I have. That feels really bad. It's a horrible feeling to be rejected like this. I'm glad that I have a case manager and social workers. BF |
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10-04-2018, 11:50 PM | #8 | |||
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I have so many problems at this time. My case manager has been trying really hard to find a place for me to live. So far there is a one room, shared bath room available, with four men living in a house. I'd have to go to a group gathering 3 days a week during the day. I went there a couple of years ago to check it out and I didn't like it at all. I'd have other things that I'd have to do there.
I have to start at the beginning of the hud housing market. I have to wait 7, to 10 years. That means I will have to lose a lot of my belongings, and hobbies. I have a blood test the week after next to see how my kidneys are doing. At times my anxieties are way up in the red. I have a mixture of anxieties at one time. I am so tired. This feeling of abandonment is a painful feeling. It's just not fair. BF |
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10-05-2018, 02:25 AM | #9 | |||
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Of course it's not fair.
It's certainly o.k. to mourn the life you have been living as you consider how you can adjust to the new life. M |
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"Thanks for this!" says: | bizi (10-05-2018), Brokenfriend (10-05-2018), Dmom3005 (10-05-2018), mymorgy (10-05-2018), OhKay (10-05-2018) |
10-05-2018, 09:34 AM | #10 | ||
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Friend
I'm not sure where your at. But most of the HUD has an emergency placement option, type thing. Check out if the way your being made to move would fit into this area. I would say see if someone other than your case manager can help with this. I don't exactly know who. But I would think it could be considered in your situation. Wish I knew how to help. Or was closer and could look into it for you. Donna |
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"Thanks for this!" says: | bizi (10-05-2018), Brokenfriend (10-05-2018), ger715 (10-09-2018), mymorgy (10-05-2018), OhKay (10-05-2018) |
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