[Brokenfriend]

My niece and brother in law want to meet with my case manager. They didn't tell me first. I think that they are going to try to make arrangements to have me move out. Move out to where? What about my stuff, and what about my cat. I love my cat deeply. This is making me sick. BF I feel abandoned in advance and rejection, and fear.
BF

[OhKay]

I'm so sorry, BF

I can only hope that you are wrong about why they want to meet with your case manager... and that they are only concerned about your health

[Brokenfriend]

My BOL is going to retire next Summer, and I've been told that he may be selling the property that I'm on. I live on this property. He has been talking about this too my niece.

I was wondering why they didn't call me first. This is strange.

They want to meet this week with my case manager, but I'm too shaken up. We need to make it next week. That's what I emailed to them.

Anxiety/depression/Kidney/age/knee and back pain is a bad combination to be dealing with, so a move might cause me to break down.

I feel a sense of abandonment creeping into my emotions, and it doesn't feel good.

What if everything has been said, and done, and I end up living on the streets. It could happen. BF

[bizi]

I am sorry that things will change for you. Don't know what will happen and the is worse than knowing the truth. Right now please concentrate on maintaining your mental health. Call in your team members your case worker and your therapist if you have one.
I am glad that you have us but you need real life support right now. This is crisis mode for you . I understand your fear. I think they will help you to figure out your home situation. You may need to find hud housing or section 8 housing or what ever else they call low income housing..
They will not put you to the streets!!!!!
lots of hugs
(((((((HUGS)))))))

[Dmom3005]

Friend

Your team can work this out. And it sounds like your niece and Brother-in-law are giving them time to work it out.

Work on getting your health back on track this week. And have the team
work to set up the meeting when you are ready to have the meeting.

Donna

[Brokenfriend]

My parents have passed away, and so has my sister. My last Uncle who cared about me passed away a couple of years ago. I now have no family members to cheer me up.

My counseller resigned and has left her position about 3, or 4 weeks ago. My brother in law doesn't want to talk to me for some reason. He wants my niece to talk to me, but she only talks to me through the internet.

It looks like I'm going to be abandoned by the last family members that I have. That feels really bad. It's a horrible feeling to be rejected like this.

I'm glad that I have a case manager and social workers. BF

[Brokenfriend]

I have you all. I have God with me. BF

[bizi]

yes you do!
((((HUGS))))
bizi

[Dmom3005]

Friend

I'm wondering if your brother-in-law is depressed also is part of the
problem. Not that its your problem. And he doesn't know what
to say to you or do. And honestly to do a meeting with your
case manager and others, he will have to talk. Or your niece will
have too. So this will be something that will change.

I have a suggestion, that might not work, or it might. But maybe
you could ask your case manager and anyone else coming to
the meeting on your be-hath to either come half an hour early to
talk about the things you want to have discussed at the meeting.
Or meet at a time different, then have this meeting.

Make sure the team knows what the points you want discussed are.
And how you want them handled. IF you are comfortable with one
or more of them handling the meeting for you then, let them do
as much of it as they can.

Also see if they can work to get your brother-in-law and niece to
tell them why they wont talk to you. Maybe they can.

Donna

[bizi]

This is great advice donna!
((((HUGS))))


bizi