I don't know what you found out when, but it's a lot to digest, and I think that this may be a process. What's most important is that you are open and trying, Donna :hug::hug::hug:

I'm so happy that Derrick has a new provider that he really likes, and who can accept him for who he is :):):)

Its been raining, raining and raining around here.

Ugh I'm tired of the weather. Oh well.

Yesterday I took Doby and Derrick home. We had Will with
us. We went to eat at Hardie's and then went to Goodwill to
look around, because it was sprinkling and raining off and on.

And wasn't making my plans good right then. But Derrick had
picked up a pink box that would keep cosmetics or jewelry or both
nice. I wasn't sure if he was keeping it to help with his move.

Or was planning to use it as a christmas present, and didn't ask.
But Will was putting his nose up because it was pink. And Derrick
is a guy, Derrick says real men wear pink. And I intergetic that
Derrick also buys presents for girls or Women for christmas. So
Will has no clue is this is a present for Meluvja or Kortni or even
Meluvja's daughter. And this gets him to think and move on.

THen Derrick has to go back and get the jewelry box he had found
because its definitely going to be a christmas present. He is now
only looking for one more for one of the girls. He gave one to
Meluvja's Daughter last year. So he will have given to all three
if he finds one more.

He says you know these are expensive so this is the way I can
get these nice ones.

Oh then its nice out and we go back to the parks really nice
zoo. Right across from were Derrick lives. We see lots of
animals, and butterflies. And even see a authentic rooster
call. Wow, I've never seen that many roosters in one place
I counted at least 7 or 8 at one time answering the first one.
They crossed the road way to come out and go to their areas
to do the call out to each other. It was so neat listening to the
rooster call as I call it.

You could tell the employees were used to it. THey didn't even
react. But the kids were enjoying it.

Donna :hug::grouphug:

I like roosters too. They are so cool to watch.

Aside from the rain, it sounds like it was a nice day :)
I'm glad that you got to spend some time with Will :)

How is Will doing? How old is he now?

How are you doing? Elbow?
(((((HUGS))))
bizi

He is 12 To me he is doing well. Of course not to the one
that likes to complain all the time. I'm so tired of the way she
complains. I think she needs to complain.

He will be leaving soon to go see his mom. So I will have to
wait till he gets back to spend time with him again. My own
fault.

My elbow has been a pain the last few days. Think it decided
the rain would like some company in being a pain.

Anyway, I don't know what to tell the lady. Will is just that
Will a kid with his own issues. And we will get him through.
But she needs to let him be just that a kid first.

Donna :hug::grouphug:

I can't believe that will is 12!!!


sorry that your elbow is still hurting when do you have another exray to see how it is healing?
((((HUGS))))
bizi

Bizi

I don't have any more appointments. My elbow is healed its
just going to take some time.

Donna :hug::grouphug:

Donna, do you have OT for your arm?
bizi

No he didn't order it. And I didn't ask I'm waiting to see
if it gets better. I'm hoping I just over worked it.

Its better today.

Also it was interesting this morning Derrick called me as
he was out with his new provider. I realize they do some
things for his pride things.

Well I'm guessing he thought of a piercing in his ear. He
called me wanting to know if it was okay to look at the things
and to think about getting one. I told him yes, but he would
need to wait on the money. i'm sure he doesn't have enough
today. He said, yes he was just looking.

I had hung up, had to call him right back. In case he thought
he had enough. ANd tell him he had to wait either way, till
he had his surgery because of chance of infection and that
the jewelry would have to come out for the surgery. And
I didn't want to him to have to take a chance of having to have
it done twice. I know he can handle the taking care of the ear
and things. But without knowing when he will have surgery
I'm not comfortable with it yet.

So he was fine. But he had called me because of the guardianship.
I honestly didn't do guardianship for this kind of thing. But I'm
glad he or his provider thought of it. I wouldn't have agreed
to an tattoo. Only because my husband would have thrown a fit.
And the bigger they are the worse for employment.

Donna :hug::grouphug: