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Rain shower 09-06-2019 01:01 PM

Good afternoon everyone,

I hope you are all as well as possible. So glad Mari you were ok and safe. Such a weird storm, or maybe they reported so much it just seems different. Either way I morn the losses and pray for the victims.

I had the so called "expert vocational eval" yesterday. What a day. It was a three hour round trip and the exam started at 830 and did not end until after 1. It was definitely paid for by workers compensation WC and it was made clear no further benefits should be expected. She was very inappropriate. She over shared about her life trying to "befriend" me for a lack of a better word. Manipulation skills 101! I tried to not fall into her trap but I had to answer her direct questions which were geared to show I was indeed employable with lots of "transferable" skills, just work in a wheel chair. I am not in a wheel chair. That was her recommendation to get my employer to take me back. No travel, no lifting and sit in a wheel chair, that way you won't get tired. I am unable to express how I really feel on this forum as I would get kicked off for sure. I wish her no harm. Just a different line of work or a soul perhaps.

Today I am sad and angry. I will attempt to paint a beach, water and sky piece on stretched canvas. I am sure the sky will have some pretty big angry storm clouds and this too will pass.

Take care,
Cindy

mymorgy 09-06-2019 01:37 PM

I am so sorry this happened to you. can you appeal it?
bobby

Rain shower 09-06-2019 02:13 PM

I believe the next step is my lawyer to arrange another exam, someone of his preference and see how the two may vary. Yes, I can appeal this further in the court of workers comp only. It is unjust, I guess because there are scammers, I'm not one of them, makes no difference.

I will be fine. I just feel this is terribly unjust and unsettling.

Dmom3005 09-06-2019 02:40 PM

Sending some hugs and thoughts.

I think this person really got things wrong.

Donna :hug::grouphug:

Dmom3005 09-06-2019 02:46 PM

:grouphug::hug:

bizi 09-06-2019 10:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rain shower (Post 1279502)
I believe the next step is my lawyer to arrange another exam, someone of his preference and see how the two may vary. Yes, I can appeal this further in the court of workers comp only. It is unjust, I guess because there are scammers, I'm not one of them, makes no difference.

I will be fine. I just feel this is terribly unjust and unsettling.

This says a lot.
Am so sorry you had to deal with her.
Yes I think you should appeal.


In the mean time...will be anxious to hear how your painting is going. would love to see the stormy clouds.
feel free to write what ever...as long as there is a trigger sign to warn about the extreme emotions or possible trigger.
You are fine.
hugs to you today
((((((HUGS))))))
bizi

Mari 09-08-2019 03:42 AM

Rain,



What an awful experience with that eval.


I'm so sorry that you had to deal with that.




:hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:

bizi 11-10-2019 01:02 AM

How are you doing?
bizi


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