Thank you lara and bobby for your support.
love

bizi

Bizi

I remember your trip. It was such an great time you and your friend had.
And I'm guessing it was one of the last she had to really enjoy herself.

And I agree with Bobby maybe you could offer her husband to come look through some of the things and see if there is something you would enjoy having that she has collected, that he and his son wouldn't mind you having.

That way you would have a great memory of her also. I know my sisters and
I really enjoyed getting some things from my mom's, and also I enjoy sitting on her old furniture that Derrick bought before the rest of it was put for sale.
And he loves her old houses and things for putting up at christmas. He ended up getting them all. Because no one else wanted them.

I still get to see them its so nice. And I can see my antique cabinet that is in his kitchen everytime I come to his house. He takes so good care of it.

Donna:hug::grouphug:

Thanks donna that is a good idea.
bizi

i have been thinking. i bet your friend in heaven would so appreciate your making some food for her husband to freeze and occasional you and Jeff taking him out to eat.
love
bobby

I offered some gumbo that we had too much of and he politely said that he did not like gumbo. He said even though I am a coonass I still don't like gumbo.
The funeral is thursday from 11-1pm. I might pop in a bit before 11 to give gary a hug and say my good byes to doris.
after the service is over she will be transported and then buried in mississippi.
Her son arrived and wrote a nice obit. I am glad he is there for garys sake.
bizi

that was nice of you and her son. that is a long funeral. i hope you can feel some peace.
love
bobby

Can't believe it has been a year and a half since we lost marysue. Jeffs mom. and also one of the cats, hattie to cancer.
This time has flied.
bizi

If I can get my self together like take a shower and get
ready wash hair etc. if I can get up at 8am I might be

able to get to the funeral home by9;30pm stay just for

a minute and go to my first client of the day, thursday

at 10;30, it is a 20 minute trip with out any traffic I think
I can make it there. That is if I stay focused and not
get distracted or sleep longer than 8am.
I think I can do that.
bizi

Really hope you made it Bizi.

Have a good day after that. Its hard but sometimes a necessary thing
to do.

Donna

I am cooking a pork roast in the crock pot tomorrow.
Will use cream of mushroom soup and carrots and mushrooms.The roast is preseasoned.


The calling for Doris was this morning at 9-11 before the service.She looked at peace.
I got there around 9;30
I got up at 8am because I had to take a shower.
The funeral home gave me a picture of Doris with her obit inside. It is a lovely picture of her.



my nails are getting so long that i type with them and have to correct a lot of things
as I go along. I should trim them back, but they look pretty so I think I will keep them

a bit longer.I need a pedicure,the hallie cat is licking my toes and occasionally tries to
bite my nail, wonder what about my feet she likes????


Well I got tired of looking so stuffed into my scrub tops that I stopped by the uniform shop
and bought 5 extra large tops 3 blue and 2pinkish.speaking of which I need to go put them in the dryer right now.


the house is hot I turn the thermostat up when we are not home for the day then turn

the air back down to cool the house we like to keep it 72 degrees at night and 75 during the day.
with menopausal hot flashes It sucks being hot.tuesady night I finished most of my billing I ran out of stamps.
Have not charted the directive for the foot care nurses just says that I need to

get doctors orders it doesn't say specifically that I need to chart.
I know I am trying to rationalize not charting.

bad me.
I am so glad for spell check!
Thanks ladies for reading.
love bizi

glad you made it.
love
bobby

Thanks Lara for reading my thread, hope you are doing well.
(((((HUGS))))))
bizi

And of course thank you bobby and donna for always being supportive.
I appreciate all of the support I can get.
love,
bizi

it is so necessary.
love
bobby

so sorry for your loss. i can't cry. one of the reasons i stopped going to the senior center was because a lot of people were in their eighties so there were a lot of deaths. i had a lot of deaths when i was in my thirties. a best wonderful friend died of leukemia. two killed themselves. i had to run home when sharon died of leukemia. i just couldn't handle it. i was told she had aplastic anemia. such an incredibly kind and so wonderful.
i think about death a lot. i can't cry. i just feel the pain and can't release it.
love
bobby

Bizi

I'm so sorry to hear about learning how your client died, but even more
its such a shame that you didn't realize your friend had died. It just hits
home when things like this happen that we lose more and more friends
in odd ways.

Please take care of yourself.

Donna:hug::grouphug:

I got suckered into buying multiple bottles of weight loss tonic. I should know better than to watch those informercials Buyers remorse big time,
bizi

I hope it at least has some healthy "something" in it, like vitamins, so that it's not totally wasted money. Is it actually called a tonic? How are you doing? I hope you're doing ok there.

is there any guarantee about weight loss so you can return the other bottles?
a lot of times they offer that. I have lost weight having a lot of low sodium campbell's chicken noodle soup that tastes good and is comforting. it has 120 sodium. that is the lowest of sodium i have seen in canned soups. of course it is so easy to prepare. lol
love
bobby

:grouphug:

I don't remember about the return policy.
sigh
what an idiot. who knows what they could do with my credit card?
I will have to be super vigilant about checking my credit cards listing.


WE celebrated jeffs 59 birthday last night with some friends at texas road house for good food and tonight jeff and went to our favorite restaurant called marcellos.
I had the flounder with lemon capers and asparagus and risotto.
mine was delicious. We started the evening with some seamed muscles with a delicious tomato, butter wine broth. wonderful for sopping up the bread I ended being very full, We shared a special moose for jeffs birthday. every thing we ate was delicious and loved our server.
Jeff had a tritone alfredo pasta, with crab, shrimp and lobster. he almost always get the same dish. last time we were there I had the lasagna which was delicious. I must look into the thesaurus for other words than delicious.
lol
bizi

It sounds as if you all had a wonderful time for your hubby's birthday.
Happy belated birthday to him.

Funny about the delicious word. I know what you mean. Not sure if scrumptious is a real word but I like it. Yummy? Delectable? ;)

happy birthday to jeff. the food sounds fantastic. wow.
love
bobby

Happy Birthday to Jeff. Words for delicious. Hmmm, I think just
that word is fine. But I'm game.

Good, yummy as someone said, ecstaticly great, heavenly, sweet.

Donna

Jeff is still drying his clothes so mine are in the washing machine waiting for his stuff to dry.
I already did one load earlier uniforms are done!
This little load could have waited but I don't have any wash clothes left that I use on my face.
I have 8 of them, think I should just go buy more wash clothes. I have enough undies and socks for 2 weeks.


I went to the jewelry store to pick out something new I did not like the earrings that jeff got for me
for our 25 wedding anniversary present so I took one back and they examined my rings that

I have on and windex took them off. When they wouldn't budge for me. I have several issues with them both.

They need to be resized again. So I left them with the folks there. We shall see if the work got done.

sigh
I found a necklace that I like with a Celtic design. I wanted some thing that I could wear all of the time.
I already have earrings that would go with my new neckless. It is supposed to be in by next saturday.

but with the slow deliveries in general. who knows when it will get here.


Well I think jeffs laundry should be dry by now. So I can put mine in the dryer.It is getting late but they can

dry while we are sleeping nothing needs baby sitting so I can get to bed at a decent hour.
Harper is being overly friendly I think she is wanting my seat because she knows it will be warm. and she likes to sleep in this chair.
She has been licking the backs of my hands. If she would just wait a minute while I finish
this note she can have it. I will pick her up and put her on the chair.
now.

so sweet about harper. i bet the necklace is beautiful. i bought a lot of wash cloths at amazon for cheap-24 of them.
love
bobby

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