have fun.
love
bobby

i have so much anger in me. i have to stop thinking about my family and all the pain they inflicted on me. one of my psychiatrists said my bipolar wouldn't have been this bad if i had had another family. i wonder if it is too late to make believe.

Bobby

I'm not sure what you want to make believe. Maybe you can make believe
a new family. I am not sure if that is maybe what you mean.

I think it would be fine to do that.

Donna :grouphug::hug:



Bizi

Have a great time

exactly with a lot more kitties and doggies and no sister but two brothers and a mother who is not a narcissist but the same father.
love,
bobby

Right Bobby,

So create the family you would have liked.

And then talk to them.


Make it the way you like. Let the father, your father be gone,
but talk to him in heaven. And let him know you miss him.
Remember that when they are gone all the problems they
had, like his drinking should be gone too.

Now if this isn't what you believe then, go with what you believe
afterlife is.

I would make up a couple of nieces or nephews that are with
your brothers too. That maybe come and visit you and call.

They could also be the ones that call and talk to you.

Give the kitties and dogs names. And maybe even adopt
them and make them stuffed ones to enjoy.:grouphug:

Donna

great ideas. thanks.
love,
bobby

i don't ever remember being hugged or kissed by my mother or father. my imaginary family will do that a lot.

i just called a help line again. i have been doing it more often lately. what a mess.

Bobby,

Just that my curiosity got the best of me. What are you calling help
lines for. Keep talking about what you would like your family to
do.

We would love to help you figure things out.

Also give us the names of your new kitties and the dogs you will
have.

And the kinds.

Donna:hug::grouphug:

i am so isolated and alone i have been needing to hear a supportive human. I am stopping the new laxative. all it does is give me terrible gas pains.
i have definitely thinking about creating a new family.
love,
bobby thank you so much for caring.