Is this a State or Federal Govt. run housing situation?

Good to see you agate. Great advice there.

This is federal. HUD = Dept. of Housing and Urban Development.

And to Brokenfriend:

In the meantime, while you're waiting for some real action, there are ways of avoiding the bullies around you. I wonder, for instance, how this person even got a foot inside your door. Unless the person is on the staff, that's not allowed unless you allow it. Does your door have a chain on it or a peephole where you can find out who's out there before you open the door--and just opt not to open it if someone you don't want to see is out there?

I study "my" bullies. I figure out when and where they're likely to hang around and I avoid those times and places. It's worth the effort but of course you don't want to let anyone know you're doing that.

Those are just a couple of things I thought of after I wrote the earlier post.

he sounds like a narcissistic bully.
I am so sorry for you friend.(((((((HUGS))))))
bizi

Thank you all for the advice. My tablet keeps shutting down. I'll try to respond tomorrow. BF

Hi agate. I don't have a chain on my door. He said something intimidating and I opened my door. I didn't think that he would stick his foot in my door. He is grown man having these temper tantrums and now I consider him dangerous. Yesterday he had cooled down but he dominated the conversation. He doesn't take my input unless he asks me a question. I cannot have a conversation with him because he wants to do all the talking. He's unteachable. The staff won't tell me anything about him. I know that he spent some time in prison. I would not get him into trouble because I know he would retaliate. I don't know what to do. These verbal attacks are very painful to me. I'm taking one day at a time and am in surviver mode. BE (Hugs)

Thank you bizi. I seem to have had to put up with bullies all of my life. I guess that they see that sensitive side of me and they attack with their cruel side. Looking at Dr. Les Carter's posts on YouTube has helped me greatly. These type of people get their narcissist supply when they cause a dramatic situation. BF (Hugs)

I would get a chain lock put up in your door. this will prevent all entrance to you bed room. and I would use it at all times when you ar in your room.
love you
bizi

If you're very sure that he's been in prison, it's quite possible he didn't tell the management that. He can be evicted for that reason. Not for having done time but for having lied about it on the application form.

Maybe he was upfront about it with them but maybe he wasn't. A neighbor of mine got evicted some years ago here though he'd been living here for many years with no problems. Someone found out he had a prison record, went to the management with it, and they hadn't known about it, and he was obliged to leave.

I wasn't the one who found out about him and turned him in and don't know how that was done but it sounds to me as if you're exploring any possibilities at this point, and maybe this is one.

wise words agate

Friend

I suggested before that you call Adult protective Services. I still believe
you should do so. But with the way the situation is sounding I would
make sure you are allowed to talk to them at some other location.
Also make sure you let them know he is physically not afraid to enter
your premises when you don't want him too. Also for your protection
buy a small tape recorder and keep it hidden and tape the conversations
with him. Just in case
Donna