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Old 11-12-2007, 11:52 AM #1
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Hi,
I broke up with Dirk. I am fine. I couldn't take his drinking, insecurites, paranoia and lies.

Took me a few months to realize all this crap, but I cannot live like this, and I don't deserve to.

Now just waiting until he moves OUT, should be ASAP. At least I hope so by the end of the month.

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Old 11-12-2007, 12:14 PM #2
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so sorry, but glad you saw these issues before getting too entangled or too invested emotionally.
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Damn straight -- you don't deserve it. Glad you realized it.

Now you can start focusing on what you DO WANT. I can't wait to see what kind of life you are going to get when you focus on YOUR WANTS -- you are going to be kicking @$$ and loving it

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you have such a winning personality that you deserve the best. If only you could meet a dog lover. That is how you might meet somebody deserving of you. YOU ARE SO BRAVE....BRAVO
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Wow!
I hope he moves out sooner and hope that he isn't being a jerk to you...
YOu deserve to be loved and treated well.
period!
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Nikko,

I'm sorry to hear things didn't work out but it is better now than later. Hugs to you my friend.

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BRAVO!! TO YOU

I have to say I'm very impressed with you. And I also think its just the
first step in lots of happier days for you.

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Dear Nikko,
You are doing great to make decisions and changes based on what is good for you.
I applaud you.
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WOW! I need to catch up!......pardon me while I read some threads!
Sorry to hear about this Nikko. I know how much you liked him. But at least you found out about this quickly.
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RELIEF - After work yesterday he moved some clothes and personal items to his brother and sister in laws, and is staying there from now on. I know why he decided this, 1. So he can drink over there 2. So he wouldn't have to pay the rest of the month's rent. All is ok with me.

I got the keys back, and told him to call when he is going to pick the rest of his things. Although I don't think that it won't be done in one shot.

He kept saying how he loved me, and please think about this, like begging me.

I stayed to my guns. I have to for my sanity. I also found out more about him from someone, that I really don't like at all.

I just hope this is a swift move of his things out of here. My anxiety level has dropped, yet I know I have to deal with him again when he comes to get more things. ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

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