Hi Nikko,

It seems like you and I are going through the same thing. I have a protective oder against my husband for over 6 months now. I feel mostly anger though that my husband treated me so bad and I hardly ever think of the good times with my husband. I admire you for sticking to your guns when you are still having the type of feelings you are. While I still love my husband, the anger I feel at it all helps me get by I think.

I think what helps me when I don't feel so hot, is to get out among people if I can. Even when I don't feel like it.

Here's a hug, {{{{{Nikko}}}}}.

befuddled2

Keep talking...posting...that is what we are here for....talk as much as you want....
((((HUGS))))
bizi

Thanks, my court advocate called me yesterday, she said good on everything I have accomplished, and we are ready for Monday. My DV case mgr said the same thing.

I never did get the tires swiched, it cost too much, so my car will go bye bye next week with the new tires. The tire on my mom's car that went flat can't be fixed, so she still has the little tire on it, I forgot what they call it.

So, somehow I have to get a cheap tire for that, or maybe my neighbor will take off the little tire from her's and switch it to my car. I don't know, can't deal with that today, I still have until Wednesday. I'll figure something out.

They never put the $40.00 (monthly) on my food stamps card, and I was in there on 9/19/06, I keep calling but get an answering machine and nobody calls me back. So, I sent an email.

It's Saturday and it's still early here, having coffee, weather looks cloudy, but that could change. I am tired, I still haven't done laundry, I really need to, it's only one load.

Woke up with a headache, took my furiocet, feel better now. I just feel like chilling out, watching tv if anything good is on, and reading my magazines.

Monday is going to be a long day, since court isn't until 3pm my time. Waiting around all day is going to be anxiety city for me. I wish it was 9am, like the other pre-trials that he screwed up.

Well, that's it for now, I think.
Hugs, Nikko

Please forgive me nikko...but I would think that getting your tires swapped would cost about the same as a new tire...
Maybe you could ask one of your girl friend/neighbors to change them for you?
I hope you get to enjoy your pool there this weekend some...relax if you can....you have worked so hard...
hang in there...
bizi

Yes, your right Bizi about the tires, but since mine are so new, I thought it would be perfect to swap them to my mom's car.

Not happening due to cost. I am going to Discount Tire, see how much they want for a tire, new or retread. Or I am going to ask a neighbor to get that little tire (donut) I just remembered what they call it off my mom's car and put one of my new tires in it's place. Life just sucks sometimes with money and when it rains it pours for sure.

Hugs, Nikko

and maybe if you find a neighbor to swab out the one tire...they might swip out all 4 tires???

How did your day go?
Bobby

((((((Nikko)))))),

Darn, there's a whole bunch of stuff that I did in a half-hour period over the weekend that never made it to the internet.

I posted to you the other day a suggestion that you hold a small pizza or cookie party for 4 of your neighbors -- sort of a swapping-the-tires party :p

This is so weird. I posted to google--never made it. Added products to my store--never made it. All in a half-hour period. The 'puter gremlins were here early :confused:

I hope you made it through today without too much aggravation and without too many psychic bruises.

I'm hoping 'things' are getting easier for you, sugar. BIG HUGS (and love).

Barb