Hello Nathan! I don't think we've met... nice to meet you

~ waves ~ from across the ocean

Hi Bizi

THanks for all the suggestions... things are a little different here. I am not in a big city either. The other thing is, I don't get out of the house unless i have to which is generally 2ce a week, 1ce if i can combine the two. I don't like it. I'm in hole-up mode. I sleep more than 12 hours a day. I don't particularly eat too much thank goodness!

Hopefully, this will pass. I also have a lot of physical repair needed on my back muscles... so i have to balance getting exercise and stretching (carrrreeefully) and plain resting. also taking more En (benzo) which helps. My foot is coming along well, equilibrium and everything.

there is a busy bureaucratic phase ahead of me, and i am having a lot of resistance about that. didn't someone observe before that bureaucratic stuff was one of our nemeses.... ?

~ waves ~ from across the ocean

Hi waves.
Halloween was great fun this year...hubby went out of his way to decorate the outside of the house...will post some pictures when they get developed.
I like having you here and I don't think we should worry about our little home here in cyber world.
This new community is about serving its members....US!
It sounds like you may be experiencing some mixed symptoms?
I hope you are feeling more secure soon.
((((HUGS)))))
bizi

Dear Waves,
I didn't feel attacked. I was trying to explain even though I realize that the expalantion was not really adequate.


We have more room in this place so the stuff struggle is much better. But hubby still pays for a monthly storage unit full of books to the ceiling.... So the issue is only temporarily resolved. Good enough for now. He is not asking to get the books out because he seems to like to have some free floor space and free wall space.


I hope your un ease and confusion abate soon. Maybe you need recovery time after the move. It was a big one.

Mari

Hi there.

Thanks Bizi... that is a pretty grounding viewpoint about worrying about cyberworlds. Hmm. Perspective. Mixed sx... possibly, but to a degree that is "manageable" and seems not to worsen... best not touch my meds.

Mari, I'm so glad you did not feel attacked, and thanks for the reassurance. That is great about the move... and most of all, that your hubby is appreciating space!!! This experience could have a significant impact on his stuff-tolerance in general

Thank you both for your support through all this.

~ waves ~ from across the ocean

Hi Waves,,,,,,,hang in there.....miss you.....go easy........and take care of yourself.

Write soon, Nikko

(((((HUGS)))))
bizi