I'm Upset

befuddled2 · 12-06-2006, 01:48 AM

Thank you everyone. I am going to try to be positive and look forward to my move at the end of the month with or without my husband's payments. I'm not sure but it may take awhile to make him hold up to his side of the bargain legally but I may be eligible for food stamps and Medicaid to help me until then.

befuddled2

Curious · 12-06-2006, 02:17 AM

((((befuddled))))

hand in there hon.

if he did set up the payments to come from his bank account..it might actually be faster than a payroll one. since you are not the employee, it isn't as easy as just issueing the deposit. the court has to be notified with each payment. ( at least that is the way it used to be when i was writing payroll)

i hope the money does start coming on time..and the right amounts for you.

a new year and a new life is coming for you.

hamster · 12-06-2006, 03:03 AM

Hi Befuddled

It's so difficult to make things work when you don't have the money you are expecting when it is supposed to be there. I hope he straightens up.

If there is an order then you might be able to garnish his wages if he refuses to follow it.

I hope things get better soon.

Hugs
Hamster

Nikko · 12-06-2006, 10:49 AM

Hi BF - I hope the money situation gets resolved, yet since he lied to you already, can you call your lawyer or the court, since you aren't getting what you are supposed to, and the fact that he lied.

I wouldn't sign off the lease, until he got his act straight.

It is too bad you are the one that has to move, the courts are just not fair when it comes to certain situations.

Hang in there, take care, Lots of Hugs, Nikko

befuddled2 · 12-06-2006, 02:45 PM

Thank you all,

I still have to move but my lawyer did contact my husband's lawyer and my husband said the payment should go into my account today.

befuddled

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