[befuddled2]

As you all may know I have lost the court case with my in-laws over the house. I am going to look into appealing the decision with the help of Legal Aid or a Pro Bona lawyer.

I also am up to a fight with my next door neighbor when she takes me to court next week for excessive loud noise. I have pretty much had it with people getting over on me.

barbara

[Mari]

Dear Barbara,
Sorry that you are having to go through all this over the house.

And the sooner you get away from the neighbor the better.
Is someone going to court with you?

M.

[befuddled2]

My lawyer said I would not have a case to appeal the decision handed down to me with my in-laws. So I'll have to drop that.

My car insurance woman called me and said there is $100 damage done to my next door neighbor's car from the allleged accident. The insurance lady said my neighbor has a picture of our two cars together. I am working on that cause I did not hit her car. She set me up. And there was nothing but a half inch sratch on her license plate and that was it to say was wrong with it. I am fighting mad. I told the insurance lady that the woman got in her car and moved it into mine to make it look like I hit her car. So what she has a picture. She does not have a video of me hitting her car which she told me she did way back then.

[Mari]

Dear Barbara,
I'm happy that you have good car insurance and that you can let the insurance company deal with that.

You need to move as soon as possible and without announcing the date ahead of time to anyone.
If she is as crazy as it appears, she could act out more just before you leave.

Please move.
M.

[befuddled2]

Mari, my insurance company is not handling it becasue they believe my next door neighbor. I have to do all this crap alone.

Moving is not as easy as it seems.

barbara

[Mari]

Barbara,
I'm so soo soooooo sorry.
I never heard of an insurance company doing that.
M.

[befuddled2]

Mari, my insurance company is making the claim to pay my neighbor so they did that part to get that far. I did not hit her car though so the insurance company should not be paying my neighbor a dime. I have been judged to be guilty just at the say of my neighbor instead of innocent until proven gulity. I have to prove my inocents on my own. The insurance company is not doing tha for me. Do you understand now? I was set up big time by 2 people.

barbara

[Mari]

Dear Barbara,
Yes, I hear you and understand.

When you move, do not tell people where you live now. Do not talk about it and certainly do not tell them the date --- let them find out when you are moving your stuff.
You need to protect yourself as much as possible.
M.

[waves]

dear Barbara,

this is awful. i cannot believe (i mean i do believe you, but it's shocking) how the insurance company is just ready to pay out like that. ghhhhh. i would be ggghhhhhhhhhrrrghhhhh. yeah. i am really sorry about this. i wish i knew what could be done. can you get help through legal aid on this one?

i agree with Mari about keeping a low profile moving. i mean sure people are going to see it when you start hauling stuff out but let them find out that way, don't help them. sigh. at least you are moving. i know moving is hard. and you will be leaving your garden that you just planted. sigh. or can you take the impatiens with you? you did say it was a small plot. do be sure the mgmt has fixed the phone before you move yourself in to stay.

i do wish you well through all this. you really deserve a break. it just makes me want to scream just thinking about all the crap you've been having to deal with.

sending you whatever positive vibes i can muster, and really hoping for bluer skies on your horizon. meantime come sign up for a "special blanket" in the checkin thread

~ waves ~

[befuddled2]

My Nerves are so shot aftrer the confrontation with my neibgbhor and her croonies yesterday that I just don't care at the moment. I'm just going to take Ativan and sleep all day.

barbar