Thanks Mari. Yes, it is all sounding promising with Bobby. I can't remember the last time I was this happy with someone. I can not wait to see him again.

barbara

Just wanted to say this sounds so nice, and that i liked the card you made. i think he laughed out of a kind of nervousness... at least that's how i imagined it when i read the post the very first time... because he was being made a fuss of... complimented... a good nervousness.

anyway... keep us posted.

~ waves ~

Thank you Waves. Yes, I agree that Bobby laughed out of a good nervousness. I told him this past Sunday to email me this week when he's back at home 3 hours away from me. I called him last night and he told me 3 times during the conversation that he was sorry he didn't email me but he's just not into emailing. Before we hung up he told me he appreciated me calling him. I just keep falling deeper and deeper for him as polite and considerate he is.

barbara

Bobby is not feeling too good this week. I was not able to see him today. I hope to see him on Monday.

barbara

Well, sneaky friendy won't get to see him either, but it would be better if it were for different reasons like he was coming to the cook out you are going to instead, rather than his not being well.

Do you know if he is in radiation treatment or what stage his illness is at? It might not be out of place to let him know at least that you would like to know more about the situation, if he feels he can share it with you. If you did it would be clearer to you what was going on with him in general.

I will be sending him good thoughts.

i hope you go to your neighborhood cookout all the same, and try and have a bit of cheer all the same.

((( hugs )))

~ waves ~

Thank you Waves. Bobby is having radiation which is for localized cancer and not all over. It is a good idea to ask him more about it though when the timing is right.

My ex next door neighbor called the cops on one of the other nearby neighbors to her twice tonight. The 1st time she accused the other neighbor's guest of swapping parts from her car. Then later on the same cops came from my ex next door neighbor complaining about loud music.

Barbara

Hah! Imagine that! Sounds like this woman might just hang herself with her own rope! Certainly the cops are gonna get sick of this. And now that you're out of the picture... she's the "common element" to all the trouble isn't she...

you take care, and enjoy your new place.

~ waves ~

That is so true Waves. My ex next door neighbor will be seen as the trouble maker now that I'm out of the picture.

I plan on talking to Bobby more about his condition when him and I are alone since it's sensitive information. So far I've only seen him at our common hangout.

barbara

I wrote this just a little while ago. I'm not finished with it yet unless I put it in another card.

I looked everywhere
Little did I know I'd find you there
I looked on the internet
and no one had I met
I looked in church to meet
for some who'd make my heart skip a beat
I saw you talking there
with some friends we both share
Some time passed and I realized
my heart was a flutter inside.

Barbara