DiMarie, Glad you enjoyed part of your Xmas party.

As far as your other siblings. We have to remember that abusers are masters of manipulation, and ALWAYS blame the person they abused!!!!!
Therefore he has conned them into believing his story, sad but true.

You can't let this get to you and beat yourself up about it, it won't change a thing. If you let them know it bothers you, he wins.

I hope you can rest easy tonight and get your mind off it. Thinking of you.
Take it slow and easy and screw the rest of them!!!

All men that abuse women, belong in jail as far as I am concerned.

REMEMBER THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, that's my bumper sticker.

Hugs, Nikko
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To err is human, To forgive is canine. Dog's rule!

Bumping up for DiMarie so this doesn't get lost in the sauce.

HI Nikko, I just dropped in this morning, I had to work yesterday, with little sleep.

I know you are right, it just plane sucks to hurt so bad. The lead sister told my Aunts and Uncles "They were taught for family to stick together." So although I was victimized, if there was a chance the brother would go to jail or havepolice record for his assults on me, and for the fraud and IRS problems, they were saying it was to protect HIM!

I couldn't believe my family took it to mean they were comeing there to reunite and all of us stick together! She never told them about her son's marriage or being in the service, they never said anything about how their children were, or working not working, health, they took the whol time to discrdit me, and build the bum up.

They never asked the family about their own new grandchildren or about the Uncle that passed away recently, just their own agenda mistaken as an olive branch!

I am just torn to my bones from them and would be so much happier if they stayer out of my life. But, they will not be done until they have everyone on their side. I guess they won if I never go again, but I am not strong enough to go through that stress.

They even said about the "Judge" knew I wa lieing! When she ruled against me! They don't say she is under inditment to be removed for ethics and morals chargers for actions againt victims and other court personnel.

I know families can suck, I guess I always thought when the weak or hurt were the injured party and the right party, they support goes to them. It feels more like survival of the fittest and the the weaker are not worth a good life or safe life.
I hope that your Mom is feeling better, you are OK, just days until the day.
But, I have such great supportive friends here, that understand and can send me the words of suport I need I love you all!

I HATE ABUSERS AND THOSE THAT ENABLE THEM!
Hugs to you and all here,
Di

You are a very strong woman!
This all sounds awful for you...
((((HUGS))))
bizi

Thanks for your words Bizi,
Somedays I just use up time ondering what will be next.
I am going to try and get these cookies made today for my daughter and clean.

At work at noon Friday, we are having a Christmas Party to look forward to. It is the being with kind people I look forward too and see what they bring in for the party.
Di