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Old 07-08-2009, 06:41 PM #21
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Thank you all. I went to play some dice game at the senior place today and went to the hangout. I came home and took a nap and went back to the hangout. I did not see Bobby at all. A good friend of Bobby's whom I've know about 15 years asked me if I'd talked to Bobby today. I told her no. She told me that Bobby is really a nice person. I told her I never knew him until about a month ago. Someone else said he wasn't in today. They said he must not be feeling good. They said when he's feeling good he's always kidding around and joking but is real quiet when he's not feeling well. I didn't really say much other than what I mentioned her to the people in the hangout.

I think I'll just talk to Bobby as friend if I see him in there tomorrow. I may need to wait till Friday though.

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Dear Barbara,
This sounds good.
Do what works for you.
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Thumbs up Well Done, Barbara!
I'm really proud of you.

And it sounds like you're doing pretty well too.

As for Bobby, no need to force anything... not even a friendship with him. When you feel ok with it, that may happen spontaneously tomorrow, Friday, next week, whenever... or it may not happen. But don't trouble your head about it right now.

Just keep right on going to your hang out, enjoy the things you like about it, and let the chips fall as they may.

I'm really glad you went in there today. Great start.



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Default sorry u r having bad day. i am new member. just found love and diagnose with cancer.d
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    there is a new growth by /on spin.scared to death.12 days i go to biopsy. i am 33 yy\ears old and just meet the man of my dreams. however due to fear of diein,i dont want him to no i am sick.what u think?what if he leaves me?who wants a sick girlfriend?anyway i have faught this for 2 years and managed to keep my hair. thank god for that.chat back when you have time,............peace out and hope you get to feeling better

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I saw Bobby today in the hangout where we met. He gave me the cold shoulder. Yea, he talked to me but he didn't return my hugs. The friend of mine who is after him was next door at the tire place and when somone mentioned her being there Bobby got on his phone and called someone. I assume it was her. I later went to the local bar where I saw a mutual freind of all the others from the hangout I met Bobby in and told him I was hurt. I told him a friend of mine had stabbed me in the back and that he knew her but I wouldn't call out her name. The guy named her name though and I aske him how he knew and he said he put two and two together.

I cry my eyeballs out. I will not go into the hangout anymore while Bobby is in there and don't plan on talking to any of them.

I am also drinking since I was accused of being a drunked alcoholic by my next door neighbor I might as well live up to it.

I hurt bad tonight.
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If it was me I would want to know. Bobby has told me that he has cancer already. It doesn't matter to me. I can't speak for the ones with cancer but i would want to know.

I was so upset about my computer's mouse acting up bad and a friend not returning my mouse that works that I called Bobby tonight and left a message. I told him that I was calling to check up on him since he didn't go to the hangout today and was wondering if he was not feeling well. I went on to tell him if he needs anything or needs me to let me know cause he really doesn't live that far from me. I didn't give any indication that I was calling as anything but a friend. I hadn't called in awhile so I don't feel like I've crowded him.

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I am super depressed today and can not stay out of bed.

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Heart Dear Barbara
You had hopes and dreams...

One day something happened to whisk them away.

So you experienced a loss... even of something you dreamed. It is still a loss. The hurt will not go away all of a sudden - you will have better and worse days. The important thing is on the better days to put your foot forward and go about your business, like you did yesterday.

Today was not a good day. It is alright for you to stay in bed today. It happens.

You have been brave. But you deserve a break if you need one. And sometimes, you will need one.

Tomorrow is a brand new day. And there will be more, and better tomorrows. The hurt of this loss will fade.

Meantime... and always in fact... please be kind to yourself.



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Thank you Waves. I at least got out of bed for the time being. You are right that today is not a good day for me. I got my mouse back from my friend today. I saw her leaving her apartment and approached her to ask for it.

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Barbara

You are doing a good job.

I"m really impressed.

I"m going to post for the new person in the middle of this.

I think they got lost.

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