Daniella - that's not horrible at all. In fact, I admire you for doing what you thought right.

If you want to, there are ways to have kids in your life w/o having them yourself. So many don't have the family they need, you know? Even online, just someone to vent to could be a real life line.


I was the youngest of 6 kids, so the siblings started having kids when I was still really young. I started babysitting my brother's friend's baby. She was 2, and my brother lived downstairs from his friend.

If I needed any help, my SIL was right downstairs. The baby was so easy tho, I never needed anything. I loved that kid.



Sometimes I'd watch my 2 older brothers's kids, the neighbor's kids, etc.

I always knew I wanted kids and feel lucky I did not get sick till after I had mine, so they were not really little when I was going through all this stuff.

Now mine are grown and ds had a little girl - she's 2, and I watch her a couple days a week.

this show is okay. ive watched it. i just dont see how it helps them to take care of infants, to toddlers, then teenagers and then old people. i dont get it. if these girls want to get pregnant and have a baby, they wont learn until its their OWN child. all they are doing is pretty much baby sitting. you would treat the baby different if it was your own flesh and blood!!!