Only you know how to answer that one.Stand outside of yourself and ask What advise would you give to someone who might ask the same question that you asked us. You'd tell them that, they need to take care of themselves first, otherwise their parents would have no one to help them.

sorry about your dad
 

i hope he had a good death and glad you can be supportive for your mom. very creative about the wheelchair.

How are you doing Roberta? It's been awhile since you posted here. :hug: