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Old 09-25-2006, 10:30 AM #1
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Default One year later, remembering LisaLJ

On September 27, 2005 a long-time member of the Chronic Pain forum passed away. Her user name was LisaLJ, but we all knew her as Lisa.

Lisa was a mom to 2 beautiful girls, Ashley and Jada. Ashley was pregnant with her first child, Lisa's first grandchild, when Lisa passed away, and Jada was just a little girl when she lost her mommy.

I just wanted to post about Lisa as a way to remember her. I found a dancing banana just like her icon, and I hope it works...




That banana always made me smile because seeing meant that there was a post from Lisa.

I know that the Chronic Pain forum went through a lot of pain and sorrow after Lisa's passing becasue of her passing and because of the events that followed. I hesitated to post this because of the hurt feelings about those events, but those events should not stop us from remembering Lisa.

I will always remember Lisa as a kind a generous soul, and my heart goes out to Ashley and Jada, and to Lisa's first grandchild that she never got to meet.


Lisa's Obituary and the online guestbook -
http://www.legacy.com/kansascity/Dea...sonId=15232005
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No matter how bad a day it was, seeing that dancing banana always made me smile. I didn't always post, but her loss to the forum, to me, was palpable. I will miss LisaLJ, and I keep her family always in my prayers. She left us too soon...

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I did'nt talk to lisa but i remember her posts and her passing.
I hope her family is doing ok.
This was very nice of you to bring up a in memory post wittessa.
May she rest in peace..
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Everybody has problems. Some we create for ourselves, some others create for us. How we react to those problems is up to the individual. Eleanor Roosevelt stated, "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." We must control our reaction to our problems or perceptions. Otherwise, they will own you.
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I only posted to Lisa a few times, but I always read her messages and took some the hope and encourage she gave and freely used it for myself. So hard to believe it has been a year. May her loved ones always feel the presence of her love.

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Default Lisa was a great friend.

I had the pleasure of talking with Lisa often. When I needed something special, I could send her a PM and not once did she break a confidence. She was that way with everyone so when she left us, she took our problems right up there with her. I cannot believe it's been a year already.

Whether you knew Lisa or not, if you read this, would you please take a minute out of your day and think about a wonderful mother and friend to all who needed one. A special person...

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i, too, loved that darn banana. I couln't stay mad or bummed out once i saw that lil guy.

Gosh, its been a year now. Miss her.
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