for anyone who does NOT want to receive the public visitor messages on their profile, just go into your options section in your user CP and DISABLE the visitor messages! ;)

please note, visitor messages are *not* the same as PMs, they are comments that others can leave on your profile

Thanks, Chemar....
 

This one is going to get alot of thought from ME!

You know these features cut both ways....

If one disables something for a good reason, which is not public, others may
come to erroneous conclusions if these features are disabled.
(example== one may be perceived as a snob, or unfriendly, but in reality
one may be protecting oneself for a good reason or reasons.)

Why, mrsd, I do believe I've found someone as "bad" as I am! :D I am locally famous for thinking of all the potential things that could wrong, the misunderstandings and ramifications! What if? What if?

I drive myself crazy worrying that someone's going to get the wrong idea.

And it's usually just you!!!!! ;) :hug:

No, no, Cindy, you got the wrong idea!