Such a sad thing you are going through. Mathew was sent to the family for a reason. Thank you God that he got to kow his Dad. How wonderful for him. I will say a prayer for Mathew. God will keep you in His arms until you are strong enough to walk on your own. Grief has no time limit. There's not a right or wrong way to grieve. The best thing you can do i grieve together at times. Mathew needs to know it's perfectly ok to cry when he needs to. I've been a Spiritual Counselor for several years now. Let me know if I can help you. God be with you and your family. Blossom