Fancylady,
I would like to say something you could feel better.
I´m taking pills to depression too. Although I wish that the sadness from a loss a dear one could be "cured" by these pills, I know they don´t have this power.

I will borrow some words I received here and hope they help you as they help me:
"I hope you can find comfort in your memories and that time will make your pain less" Maryann (Daisymay)

Hugs,
Bluestone