Dear Debi,

You have touched so many hearts and many people here love you and are here for you.

We grieve WITH you and your family. We are here to hold you up through this time of sorrow and heartbreak. Reach out and we are here to help any way we can.

Thank you so much for sharing with us.

Debi, sorry for your loss.

My school chum just lost her husband earlier this year I think it was....she also went from her parents home to her marriage home and never lived alone. Her husband suffered a lot in the last couple yrs so he is resting in peace now. They were together over 60 yrs.

My friend decided to sell their house and is now preparing to move into an apt while deciding what to do next regarding how she wants to live. These are new beginnings and we have to look at it this way.

I have a lovely comforting poem, Miss Me, But Let Me Go and I'll post it later. Take care.

I'm sorry.

Dear Debi,
Thank you for sharing your story with all of us.
I am so glad you did.
I know nothing will take away the sadness right but, what an amazing family you have.
Sweet, thoughtful, caring and sensitive children and grandchildren.

Im so sorry for your loss and what you are going through.
Do go to the beach....not sure why it draws us but it helps.

You and your entire beautiful family are in my prayers tonight.
God Bless you all Debi.
Love, Diandra

I'm sorry, so young, so fast

My sincere condolences to you and your family

Peace be with you

Hi Debi,

I'd also like to thank you for sharing so openly.

I am very sorry for your loss.

I cannot imagine losing my DH, he is also my very best friend.

Your highest self, your inner wisdom, will direct you in ways you will find most healing. Simply listen to your inner direction.

May you and your family feel surrounded by Love.



DejaVu

Debi,

My heart to yours.

Jon

Debi thinking of you and your family.
My heart goes out to you,

Phil

I read your post of your husband's passing only a short while ago.
Thank you for sharing.

I just finished sending a PM to you.

You are such a "dear Lady". I feel as tho I personally have known you and your family during the past couple of years thru post and PM's.

Love & Prayers are with all of you.


Gerry

Thank you all for your kindness and prayers. I'm going to need all of you in the coming months.

Wed morning we started picking up around the house. Didn't have to since the ambulance came because we did everything at Christina's. My dad had previously knocked down the wall between the living room and dining room so it is one HUGE room......more than enough space to accommodate this extra large family and friends.

I walked around with a garbage crying and picking up. Christina and Jonathan were here with me and so sweet.

The pain in my hands and feet wake me when I sleep.

We still live in such a small town......our PCP and prior nurse pract came to see all of us at the funeral home. Such awesome people and so caring.

My son is in law enforcement and knows a lot of lawyers...some for good reasons and some for bad
One has told him when I get ready to probate the Will to bring it to him and he'll do it and explain everything to us.

All the stuff that needs to be done is just crazy overwhelming. Not sure how I'm going to do going around to all those places with Luke. We will probably have to break it up into multiple days or I won't be able to walk and I absolutely hate to use the wheelchair.

I know I'm just rambling out thoughts but that's what I need to do right now and I know you will all understand that.

I just sit in the dining room and stare at the wall in front of me. Thank goodness the kids are in and out all day long.

My son signed his divorce papers today. So heartbreaking for him to lose his dad and wife at the same time.

We are all going to Florida sometime soon with Bubba's ashes. Christina says he gets to ride 'shotgun'.......we've had some light moments filled with laughter. Bubba was a funny man and loved to make people laugh.

It's so quiet......he was always calling my name when I left the room. I know it was because he didn't want to be alone. I think somehow he knew this was coming and that was why he was able to tell me so many things he wished he'd told me all through our years together.

Please hug your spouse, girlfriend/boyfriend or whatever and tell them you love them. Even if life is hard and you're not always happy with each other. Just do it here and there for me.

Debi