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11-07-2015, 03:46 AM | #1 | ||
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November 6th he passed away. I was holding him, and I felt him pass away. It was a very comforting feeling. Everything about him relaxed.
For me it doesn't feel real I think. He looked like he was sleeping. There is going to be a burial but I don't know how I can handle it because he doesn't feel, look dead. I don't want it I want to keep him closer, hold him longer I know I can't but i just want to keep him with me |
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11-07-2015, 04:01 AM | #2 | ||
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I'm very sorry.
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11-07-2015, 07:13 AM | #3 | |||
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Ravenclaw you have been incredibly brave sharing your loved ones passing. He would have known you were there and your presence as he crossed over would have been a comfort to him. Be kind and gentle to yourself over these next days.
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11-07-2015, 08:25 AM | #4 | |||
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Ravenclaw,
I have been following your Thread. You have shown great love and composure while dealing with your own issues. I am sorry for your loss. I hope you can be strong, and kind to yourself. Dave.
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11-07-2015, 09:48 AM | #5 | |||
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Ravenclaw,
We are all holding you in love and sending healing thoughts. You are strong and courageous, more than you know. Nurture yourself through these days with kindness.
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11-07-2015, 12:02 PM | #6 | |||
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Ravenclaw
I'm so very sorry. Please know that your "family" here is thinking of you. Kitty
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11-07-2015, 04:09 PM | #7 | |||
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((((( Ravenclaw )))))
May you feel surrounded by Divine Healing Love
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11-07-2015, 10:18 PM | #8 | ||
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Dear Ravenclaw,
I am so sorry for you in your loss. When loved ones die, they take a piece of us with them. It feels like a wound, but the wound will heal in time. Although the wound will heal, it will leave a scar, and the scar will forever be a reminder of the love that was shared. Your NT family will be here to support you as you grieve. Lean on us if you wish. |
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11-09-2015, 07:36 AM | #9 | ||
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Still not feeling as sad as I should.
Everyone is gentle around me. I cry, but don't feel as sad as I thought i would. I mostly feel empty. And alone. Like it's always been the two of us. And now I am alone. It's not even his fysical presence I miss the most, it's the feeling inside me. Like something is gone from within my body and it is my heart or my soul or I don't know. I feel so alone. I am not alone, but it's alone on a different level. I can't even explain. I miss the sound of him breathing. And his smell. Everthing. But I also feel dead inside. Or not dead, but broken. |
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11-09-2015, 08:31 AM | #10 | ||
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I am so sorry for your loss and feel your words physically in my heart and soul. I lost my husband, Bubba, after 35 years of marriage, 2 months and 10 days ago on Aug 30th. Our lives will never be the same again. Yours or mine. I've lost others in my life but this is different. As you say, I am not alone but am alone. Please take care of yourself. Debi from Georgia |
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