[kalamity_jane]

i know i don't post much on these boards. i'm kinda shy here still, sorry. but i need to post today.


i just got the anniversary of my late husbands death and cremation out of the way...and now...soon...it will be time to deal with the anniversary of the death of my second Mom. i lost my real Mom at 3 years old, lost my 2nd Mom 4 years later and my 3rd Mom a few months after that. talk about racking them and stacking them huh?


anyways, i guess they are just all high in my mind today, all of my Moms most especially.


sorry if this post upsets or triggers anyone, that is totally not my intention, just need to get it out. i don't even have any foto's of any of them now...and my kids have never been told anything about any of them coz it still hurts too bad. does that sound weak? hope not. anyways...for Wilma, Pat and Linda...still love you all and still miss you all.

[bizi]

Wow you are dealing with alot of losses....
sorry that you are having a rough time...I would be too.
let me know if I can help.
((((HUGS))))
bizi

[kalamity_jane]

Thank You (((bizi))) just knowing you understand and care helps ty.

[I_WMD]

Originally Posted by kalamity_jane

Thank You (((bizi))) just knowing you understand and care helps ty.

Kalamity >..... >>>>...... My LOve ,,, I am glad I made the decision to stray into this site this eve ,,, ~~~~~~~~~{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS }}}}}}}}}}}}}~~~~~~~~~~.

I understand >. You maybe hurting ATM ,, But Plz LOve >> I carry your pain along with you whenever ya wish To Talk ,, And I will also see when I need to just be there and My silence >> holds ya close .

[Twinkletoes]

Awww, ((((kalamity_jane)))) so sorry for your losses.

When my dear Mom passed 2 years ago this month, my best friend said something that has always stuck in my mind: "Nobody will ever love you like your Mom."

Its so true. You are so lucky to have had 3 of them, but so sad they are gone.

And no, you are not weak, just hurting.

[kalamity_jane]

Originally Posted by Twinkletoes

Awww, ((((kalamity_jane)))) so sorry for your losses.

When my dear Mom passed 2 years ago this month, my best friend said something that has always stuck in my mind: "Nobody will ever love you like your Mom."

Its so true. You are so lucky to have had 3 of them, but so sad they are gone.

And no, you are not weak, just hurting.

awwww (((((twinkle))))) i never thought of it like that before...i was lucky to have had 3 even though for a short time.


i'm sorry your Mom passed but i hope you know she is still looking down on you with love, pride and care?

[kalamity_jane]

Originally Posted by I_WMD

Kalamity >..... >>>>...... My LOve ,,, I am glad I made the decision to stray into this site this eve ,,, ~~~~~~~~~{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS }}}}}}}}}}}}}~~~~~~~~~~.

I understand >. You maybe hurting ATM ,, But Plz LOve >> I carry your pain along with you whenever ya wish To Talk ,, And I will also see when I need to just be there and My silence >> holds ya close .

((((((((WMD))))))))


Ty for always being here with me and always understanding, you make things so much easier.

Love You Always

[ali12]

I am so sorry that you are going through all of this right now
I am keeping you in my thoughts
Take care and if you ever need anyone to talk to, I am here
Alison

[kalamity_jane]

((((Alison)))) Thank You

[Kitty]

July 9th was the anniversary of my DH's death....7 years ago. I try hard not to focus on the anniversary of his death but more so on the memories of the happy and fun times we shared. Of course, I can't help but remember the date...but I find that the more I anticipate it the harder it is to deal with. It's gonna come no matter what I do so I've decided that from here on out - on that date every year.....7/9.....I'm going to do something kind for someone else but never let them know who did it. It will make me feel better and will also make someone else happy.

Both my Mom and Dad passed in 2005 and although they were elderly and had good, long lives I still wasn't ready to let them go. I miss them terribly.

You've got a lot to deal with. You're definitely not weak. You're hurting...and we all deal with death differently and in our own time and our own way. There is no right or wrong.

I hope things get a little easier to deal with. I totally understand where you're coming from, though.