Hi everyone first time using this so not quite sure how to do this but I have a serious problem with my wife, don't get me wrong I love her hence my wife but ever since just before the wedding she has been over controlling and it just seems to be getting worse at first I thought it might just be a phase but now it has got to the point I haven't left my house in 3 months because she just won't let me and although yes there is times she leave me alone in the house while she goes to the shops she takes the keys with her so I can't leave and when I question her about why all she says is that she thinks I'm going to talk to other women and I'm not being funny but I think of myself as loyal I have got rid of my Facebook page and had to get a new phone so that I didn't have girls numbers ok fair play I could do that but not allowing me out the house is a bit overboard isn't it and now she insists that I can't get a job because there are other woman that work everywhere but I can't help it if I have to work with women.
Now my main problem is that I want a job again and I want to be able to go outside some point this year but if I do that then she told me she will take my son and daughter away from me and tell everyone that I was abusive to her when I have never touch a woman in that way EVER!
What can I do I am becoming seriously depressed and I don't know how long I can last with this

Well you say you love her so that's a start, do you both belong to a church group? I don't, but a minister can help with these things. Or you can try your GP? Is there a reason why you haven't worked these last 3 months, or did you resign because of pressure from your wife. Have you been married long, perhaps you can go back to the preacher who performed the ceremony? Whatever you do you need to do it soon and you need to let your minister or doctor be aware of her threats. Have your GP refer you to a psychologist for couples counselling as well. Do this sooner than later before she kills all your confidence and find out why she is so insecure.