All kinds of obstacles in life, right? Living with another, those who don't wish they did and I tell them to count their blessings of freedom. I know many women or enough who were controlled by spouses. I was married once and it ended over 40 yrs ago and I chose not to get tangled into that web again. I read other forums and so many women are their spouses caregivers....,my neighbor was here a while ago with some groceries and she's now her 80 yr old husband's caregiver who is now in dementia. Nice nice guy but a sad place he's ended up. Well, I've rambled about me but I guess it was more about people in our lives.

My grandgirl is 23 and just started a great job after 4 yrs of college and she's so involved in "dating herself" that a man is so far from her life...I tell her she's "very wise"....

Well, I hope you can find some relief for yourself. C