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Research shows that people who have gone through [adverse] events experience less impairment and distress than someone who’s gone through no adverse events, or someone who’s been through very traumatic events. Don’t hide from adversity — embrace it, in moderation. It will help you hone your coping skills further and better prepare you for the next event.
Adversity not only helps us build our coping skills, it also helps us put things into perspective. A person who hasn’t experienced any adversity in their life is going to have an especially hard time when the first event hits them, especially if it’s not until later in adulthood.
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Dr Grohol speaks:
http://psychcentral.com/blog/archive...-be-resilient/
There is much to learn. The effort is worthwhile.