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12-16-2017, 09:27 AM | #1 | |||
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Just that time in itself matter on so many levels Including spousal support Just to name one that may ease your mind Awesome advise Really good assessments that is in my family But to have the not so identical partner There are natural fears that entire our mind And begin to work on us and fear settles As change is about to hit the fan I gladly gave up men because I had children You case very different To have gone through all you have I will never know But the next thing you live are the children And protecting them My dimple point We do all we can to help them in life Never abandon them In your case a trouble on a much different situation It is at the end of the day we are in for changes I could let all that is happening go on and shut up and put up with it But how cowardly of me I must not allow anybody Determine what you want in your life and relationships This is all about you right. Ow Time to take care of you How easily he walked into her sickness And you are correct in your assessment for his ego being stroked But I will ask you this Would you enjoy yourself with a younger generation Because in all the generations one after another it doesn’t stop I will put my money on this I believe if a father shoes his son how his mother is treated will be a huge factor huge ingredient along with some stuff from mom in return is where it really all comes from A dream for some But it be the way or in my family’s case I have a gay son and a gay daughter Do lesson be the emotional connection The certainty of no abandonment there are so many things for you to hold on to and maybe find you don’t want to hang on to it anymore Letting go is difficult Routine is difficult Change is difficult I have hope And dreams for myself I have so many things I have to deal with just to pump up myself for the day I matter Something I need to figure out alone It must emanate from the inside Come from me My depression is mine Have a good idea what causes them For the most part am learning it’s a couple of times in my day I have to stop and say I can do this And thank Heavenly Father is surrounding me protecting me Letting me find me Never letting go of your need to hang on and know you are so not alone in what you are going through My job to help where I can to ease that hurt Because it does Love Me
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"Thanks for this!" says: | Dmom3005 (10-22-2018), ger715 (12-16-2017), kiwi33 (12-16-2017), PamelaJune (12-16-2017), St George 2013 (12-17-2017), Wide-O (12-16-2017) |
12-16-2017, 10:22 AM | #2 | |||
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Probably already knew, but I'm here.
PS: you are not a fool. |
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"Thanks for this!" says: | Dmom3005 (10-22-2018), eva5667faliure (12-17-2017), ger715 (12-16-2017), kiwi33 (12-16-2017), PamelaJune (12-16-2017), St George 2013 (12-17-2017) |
12-17-2017, 03:25 AM | #3 | |||
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Early days and already sending me confusing messages - last night a message he hoped I had a good day love L, then this morning an email; Hope you’re doing well Toby happier with the cooler weather how are the boys? Missing you Love L&T.
I haven’t replied to any messages, I think I will only respond in person, I’ve had 2 phone calls neither of which I answered, 2nd one he left a voice message, same content as the email. Damn, he said on Friday before the bank he needed a break. Well needing a break and then telling me 2 days later he misses me is not taking a break. It’s his fault he’s missing me.... He’s coming here Wednesday to do the pond, he has an appt at the bank to complete his credit card application and I guess will come here after that, I have a work appt at 2pm, I think I’ll leave earlier so I don’t see him and have to put up with her pinging iphis iPad every 5 m8nutes and ringing him because he hasn’t responded... My mum and sister keep saying I need to be here so he can’t take stuff, but I just can’t be worked up over material things, if he takes something, I just don’t seem to have the energy to care. Other people telling me to get a lawyer, I can’t afford a lawyer, my pharmacy bills are huge, as is my medical treatment and on top of that now I have to pay electricity, gas and water. So it’s going to be tough. I’m cutting off Foxtel (sky) at the end of the month and I’m going to see if I qualify for food bank, I have 6 pets to feed as well as myself. I can’t change the security costs or internet and telephone costs so I’ll just have to suck that up somehow. And push my boss to go ahead with the increase to 4 days a week, even if at present I struggle to work 1. I’m getting the work done, just not in a fashion I would normally and no one can say they’re neglected, I’m meeting all their needs. Life is just pure hell right now. I’m so confused and scared. .
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"Thanks for this!" says: | Dmom3005 (10-22-2018), eva5667faliure (12-17-2017), ger715 (12-17-2017), kiwi33 (12-17-2017), St George 2013 (12-17-2017), Wide-O (12-17-2017) |
12-17-2017, 05:33 AM | #4 | |||
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Grand Magnate
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Pamela, this is just a thought but maybe you could have a chat to Centrelink - they might be able to help with the money stuff?
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"Thanks for this!" says: | Dmom3005 (10-22-2018), eva5667faliure (12-17-2017), ger715 (12-17-2017), PamelaJune (12-17-2017), St George 2013 (12-17-2017) |
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