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07-17-2009, 10:05 AM | #1 | ||
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How do you deal with someone that has anger and control issues, spouts a lot of threats in anger then denys saying them? Probably just to make me sound like a liar.
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07-17-2009, 07:52 PM | #2 | |||
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Hello, kime.
What I would do and what you will do might be very different but you did ask You gave very little information so I am giving my opinion based on different types of relationships. If this person is a friend: By the actions you describe the person is not a friend and I would no longer associate with him/her. If the person is a family member: I would distance myself and possibly cut ties even tho' it's family. If ther person is a spouse or significant other: I would tell that person I will no longer tolerate the abuse (control issues, threats and anger is emotional abuse). The spouse/significant other needs help by a mental health professional and possibly couples counseling. If he/she refuses then it's time to cut your loses and walk away. In a relationship emotional abuse can transition to physical abuse. Regardless of which senerio you question falls under what your describing is not a healthy relationship and for your well being it's best to protect yourself by getting that person out of your life.
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07-20-2009, 12:29 AM | #3 | ||
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Sounds like someone who drinks and says those things while in blackout. If not, it still sounds serious. Has he hit you yet? Google a safehouse in your area, if he is not willing to go to marital/relationship counseling. billie
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