I am writing on behalf of my husband. He is 58, had no known health issues and rarely experienced headaches until this past February. Now he is having daily headaches, often multiple headaches in one day. They are of short duration and mostly a tolerable pain level individually but the consistency is wearing on him. We are working on a headache diary but they occur all times of day/night with no discernible triggers as yet.

He initially thought they were stress related since his father (and last parent) died last year and we have only just finalized his estate. He thought they would go away when things calmed down so didn't seek immediate attention or even mention them to me until he had an anxiety attack so medical assistance has only just been sought recently. He was prescribed Alprazolam: .25 mg x 3/day, Amitriptyline: 10 mg 1-2/night and was found to have a slight thyroid issue so Levothyroxine 25 mg/morning.

In reality, after 3 weeks, he is handling the Levothroxine fine as far as we can tell but the drowsiness of the Alprazolam is an issue and he hasn't even started the Amitriptyline because of it. He has had to cut the Aprazolam back to a trace amount in the morning to function at work and only a quarter of a dose at night to be able to get up in the morning. He doesn't use any form of caffeine.

He will be calling to make his follow up appointment but wondered if anyone had any thoughts/experiences on his type of headaches.

Thank you and may your day be pain free!

Welcome Concern4DH.

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Hi Concern, welcome.

Does DH have a diagnosis yet? Some reading/detective work may be necessary; here's a start: headache types

Diary is good—stick with it, and modify as necessary (if you haven't, take a look at some samples) headache diary.

IME, despite what they say, neurologists don't know enough about treating headaches. If you can, try to find one board-certified in headache medicine, preferably one whose practice is limited solely to headaches/migraine.

Doc

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Thanks Doc.

No diagnosis yet but during our internet research the blanket term "short duration chronic daily (tension) headache" fits best. DH has a follow up appointment on Saturday but we are still with his GP. He has started the Amitriptyline at night but had to reduce it to 5 mg to function. I know it may take a while to see any benefit to any underlying depression but the drowsiness factor kicked in right away.

Since starting with the meds, he is typically having only two headaches a day across his forehead rather than multiple times a day and the pain level is less than before the meds. While the times still vary, he usually has one in the morning during a busy time at work and before he has eaten anything (not a breakfast eater but will have a late morning snack) and one in the afternoon before leaving for the day. He is off this weekend so I'm curious to see if that changes the time or frequency.

I'm glad the meds are working out a little better.

I take alprazolam and amitriptyline as needed too. I found that .25mg of alprazolam (the lowest dose made) is too strong for me as well, so I split them into halves or quarters, and titrate as necessary for extreme anxiety. For sleep, I only use 5 or 10 mg. of amitriptyline, and I don't take the two together or I'm wiped out the whole next day. I only take the amitriptyline for sleep, and it always makes me drowsy.

I wouldn't necessarily rule this out yet unless you have a good reason (some other finding). The effects of stress can last long after the reason/source stops; PTSD is just one example of this. (I'm not saying I think your husband has PTSD—it's just an example of how stress effects can outlast impetus. There are other kinds of after-effects.)

If it helps, he may consider changing eating/other habits. I can't believe some of the things that have changed (that I thought never would) at this age.

Does he work at a desk/computer? Is there any neck pain involved? Did he have a virus when/just prior to the headaches coming on?

Doc

Hi,

I hope your husband has managed to find some relief?

His symptoms sound familiar to my own:

-In the base of my skull where it meets the neck
-Sometimes radiating to ears, throat (occasionally i can feel a related sensation in my nose)
-Intense throbbing, pressure, burning pain
-Base of skull feels swollen and tender
-Sometimes affects hearing - similar sensation to ear popping
-I feel dazed and I don't want to talk

-Period where i have the headaches/neck pain will last roughly 1 week - sometimes 2 weeks
-I can go for months without any symptoms

-Lasting around 5-10 minutes a time
-Come on quickly and escalate to maximum pain within 1 minute
-They come and go roughly 10-20 times a day
-Wake me from my sleep roughly 4 times a night and in the morning
-Ibuprofen / paracetamol / ice help

After my own research i realise that the headaches are somewhat tension related but also quite random. I wonder if you have looked into occipital neuralgia or cerviacogenic headaches?

Hi,

This sounds so similar to the headaches that i experience - i really hope that your husband has been able to find some relief?

My symptoms are as below:

-In the base of my skull where it meets the neck
-occasionally radiating to ears, throat, jaw (occasionally i can feel a related sensation in my nose)
-Intense throbbing, pressure, burning pain
-Base of skull feels swollen and tender
-Sometimes affects hearing - similar sensation to ear popping
-I feel dazed and I don't want to talk

-Period where i have the headaches/neck pain will last roughly 1 week - sometimes 2 weeks
-I can go for months without any symptoms

-Lasting around 5-10 minutes a time
-Come on quickly and escalate to maximum pain within 1 minute
-They come and go roughly 10-20 times a day
-Wake me from my sleep roughly 4 times a night and in the morning
-Ibuprofen / paracetamol / ice help

Does this sound similar to what your husband experiences?

My doctor thinks that its severe tension headaches and the episodic nature of the headaches is down to my body having a learnt reaction to dealing with the tension. Similar to when you learn a song on the piano, every time you sit down to play the piano you remember to play the same songs - i thought this was an interesting take, and probably the most plausible explanation i have had yet. I am taking amitryptyline whicjh doesnt seem to be helping after 3 months. I have Appointments with a physio and neurologist next week so hopefully will find some answers.,,,

I would love to hear from you as these are the most common symptoms i have come across .

Sophie

“He does have ongoing work stress in that he works with some "high drama" individuals including superiors so he never knows what the day will bring and he doesn't have any control over the situation when something or someone blows up. There was a change that occurred in January that might be adding to his work stress.”


Hi Concern4DH, this is just speculation, but I think your hubby’s headaches may likely be related primarily to his work situation, and if so, he may also benefit from seeking professional counseling.

I used to suffer from multiple daily headaches toward the end of my academic career, but I didn’t realize the cause until I retired and the headaches also soon disappeared. I am still quite concerned over my newly developed health conditions, but my tension headaches have not returned.

Apparently, in my case, career issues (and navigating university politics) seem to have stressed me out more than any subsequent daily issues that have arisen. Perhaps your hubby is in a similar situation.