Hi,
I am looking for some thoughts and input.
My dd is 13, anxiety/panic disorder...she is charter online schooled forschool phobia, gifted student.

Now a short version, of long hsitory. In 1994, I had problems of a sibling that tore through my home looking for me in front of my dd. She was terrified. I had found a fraud the sibling did on fathers estate. He went nuts, threats, mad man , stalking, with a protection order.

She became afraid to go out to the bus as he would lean out the house window (lived two homes away) and point his finger like a gun at us as she waited for the bus.

Cut us off when pulling out of our driveway, followed, pinned in our car from leaving a parking area.

Then her older sister, my oldest dd passed away. She began getting bullied in school and the principal did not help. He wanted legal charges.
She was tested and under 504, they did a IEP and we came up with a temp plan to home school online charter, and then start back part time. She is now 13 and 7th grade. We can not get her into a school......She is just starting to IM a gf from 5th and 6th grade.

Anyway, last May when she started homebound, she developed chicken pox, I got them too. As a toddler she had the vaccine, but would have been due for a boooster as there is an outbreak at her age from wearing off.

But, it took forever it seemed to clear up.Dec 13, we went to a family Christmas party and the sibling that we have the protection order against, showed up. He never came to one before and used it as an excuse to control over us. DD almost threw up, saw Santa and got her gift and out of there....

About 36 hours later she started to complain about her pain, along baack under arm pit to chest. Everywhere she touched and was miserable. Two days later she broke out with red bumps and few blister along the back, from wings to the arm pit, onto the chest.

I am concerned as the one the first one to bother her feels and looks like what would be a black head, a pin head size hard bump under the skin, not a blackhead. VERY tender. No red ring,

The areas raise with red mottle, get bumps, but get a real tender pimple and few blisters..OK, this is now Jan 14 a month later and she is still having them and the one in the center of back on spine still has that black spot, harden.

My older son had shingles once at 12 years old, and again at 19. the last time on face and eye.

DD will NOT go to the doctor....we are in the mist of some legal things over her sisters estate and dd has over the last 4 weeks, googled and diagx herslef with brest cancer, she blossomed huge almost over night. She is questioning of privates and discharge, the kind after ovulation that is slippery. Today she had me take my hand and pressed around the sides of chest and breast area for "lumps" and ligatures....She went from 34 AA to 34 B in about 2 months. or less. It is jus the glands developing....to her it is cancer.

The pimpled area on her scalp, a few, she is convinced that they are brain tumors. She thought she was lossing her vision, (strong glass script) when I took her glasses off and shined them.

At least a few times an hour she ask if this pain or that bump is cancer? I plead with ehr to go to the doctor or Nurse practioner to have her questions answered.

Tonight it is frequent urination, and does she have bladder cancer? When she poo's she had some red discoloration...she has gone threw about two qts of Cranberry drink for the concern of feeling full after going frequently but still feels like she has to go.

We had the talk of the harmone changes before her period, the harmones making the breast explode...Yesterday it was one was uneven, and the othe went up 2 inches in one night to her....
Then she asked about the bottom area, shoould it have what feels like cartalidge feel there. Went through the discription of what comes out of where and how.....

I am exhausted and concerned. Otherwise she is healthy, I do not suspect anything more then ongoing shingles? But they are not linnier as poisin ivy,
I thoguth about allergy, changed the laundry cleaners.

I thought about the tender lump with the black pin head....and think of a tick? But does not look at all like that.
I WISH I could drag her to a doctor for blood work, pee test, if anything to reassure her, or if there is a problem, what is it.

Can shingles continue from stress? That is a lot of stress on her , for the family....
Oh, dh got the same thing on his forearm????
It is not flea bites, no fleas on cats....at all.
I jsut like I said should an out break last a month? It is not a heavy think raised patches, it gets so sore, for clothes and to touch, hurts, then red raised tender, then a pimple, or few, one is real sore and bigger, and a blister type her and there,

Sorry to go on and on, but this is driving me crazy to be going on and on.
Oh, she won;t see her therapist....took her kicking and screaming and can not do that anymore. Thought she would start to mature, miss friends and be OK.....
Any ideas? It is Benedryl, Motrin, and she will only take JR strength, not the whole amount only half...Her sister passed from medication perscription interactions OD.
Di
Sorry for typos, I am in so much pain and she gets me up all night for each ache and pain....exhaustion!!!!!
I have to get some sleep

Hi Di,

Severe infections, can bring out alot of viral because her Immune System could be on the ground.

If you remember around a couple years back, I was very ill.

My DX was Cellulitis/Staph. by mainstream DOCS.

But what I really had is Lyme & Bartonella and Babs.

Cats can carry Bartonella, they won't have any SX. themselves, but humans do. But you can get some forms from even a cat scratch.

My SX were anxiety, pain, etc...

If I was you, I would get her in right away to a PED., Just a thought, but maybe she would be more comfortable with a Female PED. If it's possiable she should take a scraping from the skin. If she can't do a scraping, have the MD set up a biospy of the sores , for infection. They usually rule out Cancer as well. Absolutely nothing showed up on my biospy for infection.

If nothing shows up I would take her to a Lyme Literate MD. No infectious Disease MD will treat LYME right.

The blood work for LYME is not accurate.

Hang in their your strong. Big Huge Hugs, Roz

Dear Di,

It is very possiable that something got into dd immune SX and affecting her CNS.

Be good to you. Much Love, Roz xoxo