[jyutBuet2]

I had an injury to the penis.
I've been in very bad pain and discomfort for many weeks now(4)

When flaccid, I get some extreme cramps in the glans too with movement.
I have urinary problems, very bad.

The initial pain that started my whole symptoms was in my shaft. It was a sudden electrical shock-like pain.

Anyways, I was possibly born with this nerve abnormality but i never knew it so now i'm paying.

I do get erections now, for reasons i don't understand(Why would i be all damaged and the erections still work). but i dont feel good because i have pains(painful cramps) and discomfort(kind of like burning or pins needles)
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Since i'm all ruined and I have a kind of rare damage, will I ever be able to have a sex life?

[jyutBuet2]

Just want to add how it all started.

1. 1 month ago Did masturbation. Had no pain
2. WEnt to shower then came out..That process was about 15 minutes
3. Came out did some computer email...then i suddenly felt some cramp..
but i ignored it.
but then fel tlike going to the bathroom to urinate
and when i urinated out...I felt 2 strong traumatic electrical shock-like pains in the shaft.

interestingly where it hurts now, it's in the Glans. so that's weird.

[Jomar]

I moved your thread here to Men's Health where there are similar threads that you can read for information.

[painman2009]

Originally Posted by jyutBuet2

Just want to add how it all started.

1. 1 month ago Did masturbation. Had no pain
2. WEnt to shower then came out..That process was about 15 minutes
3. Came out did some computer email...then i suddenly felt some cramp..
but i ignored it.
but then fel tlike going to the bathroom to urinate
and when i urinated out...I felt 2 strong traumatic electrical shock-like pains in the shaft.

interestingly where it hurts now, it's in the Glans. so that's weird.

..umm ok this is a first that i have answered to an issue of the sorts but I may have some aid for you.. first .. it is a natural reaction for meant to have to urinate shortly after release.. it is the bodies way of clearing the passage to avoid infection. and depending on circumstances. it may hurt.. especially if you got soap in shaft.. Now soap in the urethra is very painful so when cleansing the area use caution... it will not hurt when it goes in just when you urinate.. and this may also cause a UTI.. urinary tract infection.. as far as sex, well i think if you can masturbate then you should be able to take it to the track for the real deal.. my opinion any way.. have you asked your dr,s???

[babybioengine]

It doesn't sound like there was a point trauma to your member, unless you are not mentioning it. You sound sad, so I wanted to tell you some info to help you get started.
The feeling of having to urinate after sex and the subsequent lingering pain could be from problems related to the pudendal nerve. I just want to mention the possibility of more advanced problems just in case, since you are having problems getting treated.
The pudendal nerve is the nerve that runs from the spine through the alcock's canal near your bottom, through to the exterior portions of your ****, testes, and penis to innervate them.
Problems along this nerve line can cause pain, numbness, or hypersensitivity along this nerve route. There can also be incontinence and sexual dysfunction.
I would suggest the possibility that there was some problem with it, and your masturbation session was when it really first presented itself to you.
Causes of pudendal nerve entrapment can include lower back problems (anywhere from L4 through S4) tugging on it, ligaments rubbing it the way, alcock canal getting smaller and rubbing it (scar tissue or by other means), piriformis muscle problems since it runs close to it, etc. It can even be from Femoroacetabular Impingement (FAI) or hip impingement syndrome.
Electrical pain, especially during or post masturbation, is something I have experienced myself from having pudendal nerve entrapment - including one episode of post-urination. Look up other symptoms, because soreness or pain are quite common when this nerve gets pulled or squished.
Note though, that there are many doctors that do not know about pudendal neuralgia, in both women and men. It's newer, but there are a good amount out there. Just find some, get second opinions, and insist on an MRI. The MRI is important because tumors (benign or otherwise) can take up room and squish this nerve. Try to find the cause of the entrapment (the squisher), if that's what it turns out to be, before you agree to any surgical intervention.
There's a lot to your body down there, so there's a lot that can be the cause. Don't give up.