I, too, agree with Barb and Kitty I would hate to see you miss out on an opportunity to be with your family especially the sister you haven't seen for 18years.

Your brother sounds like a very good, generous person !!! I'd want to give him a big hug
Linda

I know-my bro is fantastic-and I have missed my sister. I hate to give up the visit but I also have to leave on Monday to travel to Kansas City for big appt with specialists at KU MEdical. So it would have put a lot of stress on me - and they have taken me off all meds to get a good baseline take. So fatigue and energy are pretty low.

Not a really good time to go and especially if it was offending daughter in law.

The offer was so great and I could do it before winter set in and Im feeling pretty good this week and who knows how I'll feel after the thymectomy with the infiltration into heart and lungs so....cry,cry,-I just wanted to go and see her one more time.

C'est la vie. Trust in the Lord with all your heart.